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Buyers Guide to Engagement Rings: 100 Tips and Resources

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If getting married is one of the biggest and most important things you will do in your life, then it’s safe to assume that picking out and purchasing the engagement ring falls in the top ten. But there’s no doubt that it can also be one of the most stressful and confounding experiences of your life – especially if you have no clue what constitutes a good diamond, cutting-edge ring design, or how all of these factors will affect your bottom line. But have no fear – a quick run through these resources and you’ll be a diamond-buying expert in no time.

Educational Articles

Before getting started, you need to educate yourself on the ins and outs associated with shopping for a diamond ring. Things you have never even heard of will invariably come up in your conversations with your diamond dealer, so you’ll want to be able to respond knowledgably. Here are some helpful articles that will get you prepared in no time. A great site to check out for more information is Weddingzone.net

  1. Engagement Ring Guru: The Engagement Ring Guru covers it all, leaving no stone unturned. Straight-from-the-heart advice on all subjects related to ring buying, including this “gem” – when shopping at a jewelry store, try to get help from a female salesperson. Statistics show women have a better understanding of how to help you.
  2. Love to Know: Love to Know’s website is the definitive novel about ring buying. The site contains hundreds of articles on diamond quality, the latest styles, and even how to buy a non-diamond engagement ring.
  3. The Knot: The Knot is like the Bible for all things wedding-related, and engagement rings are no exception. The site even has an online quiz to help you determine your bride’s ring style, which is a great idea for those men trying to surprise their sweetie with a ring. Also, use their online ring builder tool to design your own.
  4. Ultimate Engagement Ring Guide: A helpful resource that has daily updates, information on the latest trends, and also references on where and how to buy.
  5. A Diamond is Forever: You’ve seen the commercials, now check out the website. This informational website is sponsored by the Diamond Trading Company, the largest diamond sales company in the world. Realizing that most people go into the ring buying experience with little knowledge about what they’re looking for, the DTC set up this well-designed and helpful site, which even includes an article about how diamond prices are determined.
  6. About.com: This article, written by Gemologist Antoinette L. Matlins, is for those of you for whom price is one of the ultimate considerations. Matlins aims to help readers get the most diamond for their buck. Also, find some helpful links to continue your education.
  7. Pricescope: Pricescope is a technical, though easy to use, website that allows you to compare prices on your dream ring by simply entering the criteria you desire. But even if you’re not far along enough to know what you’re looking for, you can still take advantage of their online tutorials or join one of their forums.
  8. DiamondInfo.org: This is a website designed on the predication that ring buying inspires fear and anxiety in most men. A worthy hypothesis, DiamondInfo.org aims to end the stress of ring buying through education. Dispel your myths here.
  9. The Diamond Buying Guide: Simple and straightforward, start your education here with the site’s glossary of terms and then move on to figuring out the difference between a “certificate” and an “appraisal.” The site even has a handy checklist that you can use to make sure you’ve covered all your bases.
  10. Wedding Channel: The Wedding Channel is one of the foremost sites for information on wedding planning, wedding gowns, and wedding rings. Not only will this site teach you everything you need to know about selecting a diamond, but it also dispenses handy advice on how to propose. You can even search the site to find local, independent jewelers in your neighborhood.
  11. Diamond Review: Follow the easy four step process laid out at the Diamond Review and you’ll be pocketing a gleaming rock in no time. First start with a tutorial, and then move on to the message boards where you can quiz various diamond experts on all your questions, find a jeweler and research prices.
  12. About Buying Diamonds: This comprehensive guide doesn’t pull too many surprise punches, but it does have great information, including separate guides for buying both loose and wholesale diamonds.
  13. Diamond Chit Chat: If you are looking for a more interactive, educational experience, check out Diamond Chit Chat, which hosts message boards, forums, and articles on all topics related to picking out the perfect stone. Learn from the successes and mistakes of others on this great site.
  14. Jewelry Information Center: Whether you are buying a diamond or another type of rare stone, the Jewelry Information Center can help you navigate the ins and outs of the process. Take their Jewelry 101 course or learn about the hottest trends all in one spot.
  15. Costco: In addition to selling giant packages of paper towels and chewing gum, Costco is a great bargain diamond vendor. If you want to get all the information you need in the shortest time possible, download the store’s helpful one-pager, which will bring you up to speed in no time.
  16. Yahoo!: Yahoo!’s Diamond Buying Guide is a simple synopsis of diamond buying that features recommended articles on other sites. A great round-up of resources all in one spot.
  17. How to Buy a Diamond: If you really want to get down and dirty, a simple website resource may not be enough. Check out this book by author Fred Cuellar, the founder and president of Diamond Cutters International, who dishes all the inside secrets to help you get the best price on your ring.
  18. Diamond Education: Ever wonder how the diamond came to be the quintessential stone for engagement rings? Want to see some of the most famous diamonds to ever grace the earth? Diamond Education schools readers on the basics of purchasing this precious stone, while also giving a terrific history lesson.
  19. The Four C’s: Get a jump start on your diamond-quality knowledge with this brief primer on “The Four C’s” – the characteristics you look at to judge whether you’ve got a goof ring or not: cut, color, clarity, and carat weight.
  20. Buying a Loose Diamond: If you are in the market for a loose diamond, then the ring shopping experience might be a little more stressful. With so much riding on the stone itself, you’ll want to know exactly what you’re looking for. This guide helps out you loose stone shoppers with articles dedicated to every possible facet of diamonds possible.
  21. Diamond Tutorials: Another comprehensive, in-depth site with more information then you probably need. But at least you won’t be left feeling unfulfilled. Read countless articles about diamonds, the diamond industry, and then search the directory for an appraiser or dealer in your neighborhood.

Conflict Diamonds

Don’t ruin the most romantic moment of your life or taint the most expensive token of affection you’ll give your bride to be by presenting her with a diamond obtained from warfare and violence. Since the premier of the movie “Blood Diamond” the general public has become aware that the diamond industry is responsible for creating much violence in Africa. Thankfully, though, many diamond dealers and countries have pledged to make sure they are procuring and selling conflict-free diamonds. Here are a few articles that will help educate you on the issue, as well as assist you in purchasing a diamond that you can feel good about.

  1. United Nations: This helpful article from the United Nations explains what a conflict diamond is and how the competitive diamond industry is creating warfare and violence in many African countries. A great primer to understand the issues.
  2. Amnesty International: An informative video that walks the viewer through the situation diamonds have created in some African countries. It also gives people a chance to join the fight against conflict diamonds by writing their congressman.
  3. About.com: This is an excellent article about how to avoid purchasing a conflict diamond. Understanding where conflict diamonds come from and how they create havoc in Africa is the first step, but making sure your diamond is conflict-free is the ultimate goal. This article will help you reach it.
  4. Stop Blood Diamonds.org: This informative and comprehensive site is run by the Stop Blood Diamonds organization, which works with both legislators and diamond dealers to improve the conditions of the diamond mining industry. Find conflict-free dealers and read up on different international laws guiding the industry here.
  5. Kimberley Process: The Kimberley Process is an international initiative to stop the conflict diamond industry, which has 74 country members. By adopting the requirements set forth by the process, dealers and countries alike can help ensure that the world has an abundant supply of conflict-free stones and that violence in Africa related to the diamond trade is diminished.

Blogs

The diamond and wedding industry is so big that it has spawned several professional bloggers who want to help make the process a little easier for those of you in the market for a bling-bling ring. These people want to be your resource – so let them!

  1. Team Sugar: Team Sugar is a girly blog where readers chat about all things girly – including engagement rings and wedding bands. Check out one or some of their many entries on the subject if you need some help figuring out what a girl wants.
  2. Our One Heart: This blog has several entries on shopping for an engagement ring. According to their experts, the shopping process should begin six months in advance.
  3. The Wedding Channel: The Wedding Channel.com is one of the premier wedding planning websites out there today. And the administrators of this site run chat boards and blogs on every wedding detail you can imagine. Check out the section on rings – you’lll know it’s coming from a secure source.
  4. Wedded Bits: Wedded Bits, a blog run by Brides.com, mixes up the content of their articles between celebrity wedding news and information on engagement rings and jewelry designers. Research some rings and find out whether Jamie Lynn Spears will actually tie the knot with her teenage beau all at the same time.
  5. My Diamond Buying Experiences: Pricescope is a great informational website for many reasons, but one is the blog they run, which chronicles a real-life experience of shopping for and buying a diamond engagement ring. Sometimes learning from others is the best way.
  6. Diamond Thoughts: James Allen is a huge online diamond dealer and the company even maintains its own blog, which is a fun compilation of diamond ring-related stories. Less resource than fun read, this blog will help you continue your research without the dry diamond-industry lingo.
  7. Precious Glow: A good blog run by Precious Glow, it’s a one-time-stop for some great articles about diamonds. But seeing as though it’s not updated too regularly, you probably shouldn’t feel obligated to check on it every day.
  8. The Diamond Blog: This blog posts about pretty much any diamond-related topic, and even accepts submissions from budding and established diamond writers.
  9. Glimmer Rocks: The bloggers at Glimmer Rocks love, love, love jewelry and while they like to write about how to best choose a ring, they also like to blog about their favorite new ring styles. Get education and inspiration all at once.
  10. Ring Envy: Despite a few glaring spelling errors, this is overall a great, informational blog that goes over topics like ring insurance, financing rings, and what shape rings look best on what size hands. Considering buying your ring on eBay? Check this blog first for some advice.
  11. Diamond Engagement Ring: This blog compiles resourceful articles from various websites all in one easy-to-find place.
  12. Keetsa: While not a blog dedicated to wedding rings, Keetsa does have one entry about eco-friendly, wooden wedding bands. For the environmentally conscious couple, choosing a wooden wedding band is both unique and in line with your principles.
  13. Just Ask Leslie: A blog affiliated with an online jewelry dealer, Just Ask Leslie is written by a blogger who really knows her stuff about jewelry. Get great advice not only on engagement rings, but other wedding jewelry, as well as gift ideas for your groomsmen and bridesmaids.
  14. Gilletts: This Australian jeweler’s now-defunct blog may not have up-to-the-minute news and advice about ring buying, but its past entries are no less useful. Learn the appropriate widths for men’s rings and rings made of newer materials like titanium and tungsten.
  15. Affordable Wedding Rings: A thorough and informative blog about finding an affordable wedding ring. This blog accepts submissions and has multiple authors.
  16. My Wedding Blog: This blog covers all topics related to weddings, but has a substantial number of entries dedicated solely to wedding jewelry and engagement rings.
  17. Groom Groove: This resourceful blog will help prospective grooms with many things aside from just getting the engagement ring. Many entries are devoted to this subject, including one that tackles whether or not spending two months of your salary on one ring is really necessary.

Where to Buy Online

Now it’s time for a little window shopping! Thankfully, many diamond dealers sell their wares online, displaying their impressive rings on their websites. Here are just a few popular and excellent online dealers to peruse.

  1. Overstock: Think Overstock.com is just for furniture and lawn tools? Think again. This website, which sells surplus goods, has an excellent assortment of engagement rings. Shoppers in any price range can find something here.
  2. Engagement Rings Direct: This company, run and operated by a former employee of the Gemological Institute of America, has been a staple in the wholesale diamond industry for 30 years. Buy loose diamonds, design your own, or browse the many collections available. The site even has a customizable search engine where you can enter your preference on everything from size to price to diamond clarity.
  3. Blue Nile: Blue Nile bills itself as the largest online dealer of certified diamonds, and it’s been written about in “The New York Times,” “Forbes” and “Money.” It consistently ranks high among diamond dealers, and it’s a great place to start for someone who knows nothing about diamonds. The education section of the site is excellent, as is the company’s “conflict free” policy, which means buyers can feel good about their purchases.
  4. Mondera: Like Blue Nile, Mondera is big, diverse and helpful. Learn all about the art of buying the perfect diamond from their expert advice, design your own ring with Mondera’s simple 3-step form, and get free Fed Ex shipping (insured, of course) with your purchase. Also, view thousands of ideal diamonds available in all shapes, sizes and price points – you can even download a lab report for each.
  5. Novori: Love your country? Then check out Novori, a comprehensive and impressive website that sells only rings made in the USA. Novori, like many like sites, is rated by the Better Business Bureau and promises to cater to those on a budget with prices 30 to 50 percent lower than jewelry stores and many online outlets, as well.
  6. Union Diamond: Union Diamond has won many accolades from the press, including being named “Best of the Web” by Forbes Magazine and receiving praise from Yahoo! Finance. Speak live with a diamond consultant who will educate you on your purchase during the process. Union Diamond prides itself on the quality of its wares and promises a lifetime workmanship guarantee.
  7. James Allen: James Allen Diamonds sells an average of 2,000 rings every year, and like its competitors offers shoppers a comprehensive education in diamonds, complete with a glossary of terms to remember. Get a 3D view of your stone online, and stay abreast of all the latest gem and diamond industry news with the company’s news feed.
  8. Adiamor: Unlike many diamond dealers, Adiamor is a manufacturer, as well as a retailer, and can custom make any stone or product you desire. They have over 60,000 diamonds to choose from and if you still can’t find something you like their sales staff will email you photos of additional styles and stones they aren’t able to post online.
  9. Millennium Diamond: Does the expense of the engagement ring have you stumped in figuring out how to afford the accompanying wedding band you’ll exchange with your vows? Well, fret no more, because for every diamond you purchase, Millennium Diamonds will throw in a free 18k platinum or gold ring, freeing up some cash. Plus, Millennium boasts a huge selection of entirely conflict-free stones.
  10. Diamond.com: One of the largest diamond dealers in the country, Diamond.com also offers some spectacular sales on their diamonds. Still having trouble footing the bill? Check out their monthly payment options and make this purchase a little easier on your checking account.
  11. Gem Nation: Gem Nation is a simple, no-frills diamond dealer website for the shopper who is really interested in the stone itself. Pick your top five favorites and then compare them easily with the online comparison tool. This company specializes in stones mainly, though, so you may have to go elsewhere to get the band.
  12. Precious Glow: This site is easy to use and has been praised by past customers for making their shopping process simpler and less stressful. Find lots of helpful articles about the ring buying process, as well as how to take care of your ring after it’s purchased.
  13. Harry Winston: Jeweler to the stars, Harry Winston jewelry is known around the world for being one of the most perfect and luxurious jewelers. You’ll pay for the quality, however, but even if you are on a budget, Winston’s website is worth checking out for inspiration. Since many dealers allow purchasers to design their own ring, you could easily mimic a HW design for less. Harry Winston does have a handful of brick-and-mortar shops, but unless you live in one of the more major urban areas, you’re better off looking online.
  14. DeBeers:One of the largest diamond companies in the world, if not the largest, DeBeers not only offers a wide selection of ready-made products, they also run their own diamond mines in several African countries. While they’ve come under scrutiny for selling conflict diamonds in the past, DeBeers adopted a strong anti-conflict policy in the late 1990s and are thought to be one of the highest-quality diamond companies in the world.
  15. Amazon: Believe it or not, you can buy rings of good quality at a great price on Amazon. Others who have done so report being very pleased with the deals and the rings they found. And while you’re shopping, you can pick up the latest John Grisham novel – kill two birds with one stone.
  16. Ice.com: An extremely popular site for engagement ring purchases, Ice.com offers shoppers cues to what’s hot and trendy today. But the best part is that the site sells diamond rings for almost half what they’re worth, while still maintaining high quality. Ice.com also allows customers to set up payment plans.
  17. Adylon: This online dealer, with one showroom in California, has a great selection and meets the same standards regarding free shipping and a 30-day return policy as most other online diamond merchants offer. But one unique thing about Adylon is their trade-up policy. If you’re dying to get your sweetie the ring she really loves, but can’t afford it now, Adylon will let you trade in your lesser ring for equal value for up to one year after your purchase.
  18. Brilliance: Brilliance claims to have the lowest prices on the web. While only you’ll be able to verify that through some savvy price comparisons, Brilliance is definitely worth checking out – it’s a site on-par with or better than many other online jewelry dealers.
  19. eBay: Like Amazon, you may not think wedding rings when thinking about eBay, but many a bride has been betrothed with a ring that was bought and bargained for on this auction site.
  20. Wedding Bands.com: Don’t forget that in addition to getting an engagement ring, your bride, and yourself, will need a wedding band to exchange on your wedding day. It might be a good idea to start thinking of what style wedding band you want before you get too far along in the engagement ring selection. Especially if you and your bride want your bands to match, you want to make sure the style you like fits with the engagement ring she desires.
  21. Smarter.com: Smarter.com, a price comparison shop, is akin to Overtock or Amazon in terms of having access to a gigantic selection of all kinds of goods. But this site is different because the company doesn’t actually have any goods to sell. You are able to compare rings and prices here from multiple merchants so you can be sure you’re getting the best deal.
  22. Szul: Szul has a great selection of all kinds of gems at terrific prices. That’s because they buy direct from the source, cutting out the middleman and the extra costs associated with that. You definitely won’t be disappointed with what is offered on their site.

Where to Buy in Person

If you’re more hands-on or perhaps someone who feels strange about dropping thousands of dollars on something you’ve never seen or touched before, then check out one of these nationwide jewelry shops for some personal attention.

  1. Tiffany’s: What woman wouldn’t love a diamond engagement ring from Tiffany’s, one of America’s premier jewelers? If you have it in your budget, Tiffany’s offers exquisite styles and high quality. And don’t fear – if you don’t have a branch of the store in your town, their website is also extremely useful.
  2. Crown Jewelers: Crown Jewelers, which also has many brick-and-mortar shops in malls across the country, has a great website with loads of selection. But perhaps one of the company’s shining features is the fact that it allows customers to purchase diamonds with no money down and on credit lines people can open with the store.
  3. Zales: Like Crown, Zales has many store front shops that shoppers can browse if they prefer to speak with their dealers in person. And because of their wide, national reach, Zales offers very competitive prices and an excellent assortment.
  4. Helzberg: Helzberg is another big-time chain store of diamonds who boasts some of their own signature trademarked diamond collections. Quality is the name of the game at Helzberg and they’ve even made a commitment to being environmentally sustainable through their mining policies and use of recycled papers and boxes.
  5. Find My Jeweler: If you consider yourself a person who likes to support local businesses, check out FindMyJeweler.com, a site that allows you to easily find local jewelry shops by entering just a few pieces of information. This is a great resource that might help you stumble on some hidden treasures in your hometown.
  6. Kay Jewelers: Last but not least, most every mall in America has a branch of Kay Jewelers, with ready-to-help salespeople. While they may not sing you the television jingle (“Every kiss begins with Kay”), they can direct you toward some fabulous pieces and some great sales.

Antique Wedding Rings

Do you have a funky bride with an appreciation for the way things used to be? Then you may just be after an antique ring. While some of the dealers mentioned above definitely offer antique options and designs, there are some diamond and jewelry merchants who specialize solely in this arena.

  1. Antique Engagement Rings: Again, if you are in the market for a unique engagement ring, check out this site. Or if you live in New York, head on down to their shop in the heart of the Diamond District. They carry a host of antique bands and stones that will make you nostalgic for days of yore in no time.
  2. Antique and Estate: Looking for a unique ring that will stand out in a crowd? Check out this solid website that features antique and vintage jewelry in excellent condition. The proprietors of this company won’t accept just anything. They hand inspect every piece they sell and guarantee authenticity. If your bride treasures individuality this is the place to shop.
  3. Antique Jewelry Mall: Want an antique look without the actual antiqueness? Antique Jewelry Mall will recreate vintage looks with modern materials, so you don’t have to worry about quality for a second.
  4. M. KhourdipourJewelry: This business has an exquisite selection of vintage engagement rings that would make any woman instantly feel like she was dining on the Titanic – in a good way.
  5. Topazery: This jewelry store located in Atlanta has a spectacular selection of antique engagement rings dating all the way back to the 1800s. You can feel good about dealing with a jewelry company who appreciates the timelessness of vintage jewelry. And you can shop online easily.

Diamond Quality

The one thing you’re going to need to pay the most attention to, of course, is the quality of the diamond you are buying. You not only want to make sure you get a pure stone, you want to make sure what you’re buying is going to be an investment – something that will hold its value for years to come. While many of the websites we’ve already listed can help you determine a diamond’s potential, here are a few extras for those who want to go above and beyond in their education.

  1. Diamond Helpers: This jewelry dealer also has a great article on its site about the “4 Cs” – Cut, Color, Clarity, and Carat Weight. These are the four characteristics of diamonds that are measured and evaluated when determining quality, so you need to get used to discussing these attributes now.
  2. Jewel Basket: Jewel Basket, also a diamond vendor, offers this helpful guide to understand diamond quality complete with a colored scale highlighting the different levels of clarity.
  3. American Gem Society: One of the most respected organizations to evaluate and rate rare and beautiful gems, the American Gem Society’s website has a wealth of knowledge on every gem possible. Their site even has a searchable list of jewelers across the nation that offer their trademarked Diamond Quality Certificate.
  4. AGS Quality Report: When you buy a diamond, typically you will get a Diamond Quality Report from the American Gemological Society. This can be a somewhat confusing document, unless you know how to read it. This handy article will explain what every number and line means so you can understand firsthand how great your ring is.
  5. Diamond Color: Diamonds come in five colors, ranging from colorless to light yellow. While completely colorless stones are considered the most perfect, stones with a yellow hue have come into popularity in recent times and no shade is considered taboo. Find out here how color will affect your choice and your price.
  6. Diamond Cut: Diamond cuts have been designed over years and years to best accentuate the overall appearance of a particular stone. When buying a diamond, its cut is one of the most important things you must consider. While the cut represents a certain style, it must also fit the stone, highlighting its perfections and downplaying its faults.
  7. Diamond Clarity: The measure of a diamond’s clarity takes into account all of its internal and external blemishes. The better a stone’s clarity, the better the shine. Clarity is one of the most important factors that will influence the price of the ring.
  8. Diamond Carat Weight: Another important factor influencing a stone’s price is its carat weight, which can also be related to size, but isn’t always. Figuring out the density of your stone is a very important step in the buyer’s process.
  9. Color Chart: This helpful chart will help you judge a stone’s color and fineness easily.
  10. Diamond Grading Chart Simplify: Decode the grade your diamond gets with this explanatory summary. It also includes some other characteristics that will affect your diamond’s quality beyond the 4 Cs, such as finish and proportion.

Proposing

OK – now you’ve got the ring and the knowledge and all you have left to do is ask her to marry you! Nervous? Read up on some of these tips and resources to ensure that the moment is as perfect as it can be.

  1. Proposing and Becoming Engaged: Keeping it simple and having fun is the best way to approach your proposal, according to this chock-full-of-information article about getting engaged.
  2. The Perfect Proposal: This article from AskMen.com has lots of ideas about unique and memorable ways to propose, including proposing by billboard.
  3. Top 10 Mistakes: An article covering some of the common mistakes men make when proposing. Try to avoid these if possible.
  4. Dos and Don’ts: Another article covering both good and bad things to do when proposing. Basics like speaking with her father before you propose are mentioned, as well as a warning against hiding the ring in her food.
  5. Top 10 Places to Propose: Lovetripper.com has put together this handy list of the most romantic places in the world to propose. Depending on your travel budget, some suggestions may br more feasible than others.
  6. Zagat: If you are thinking about popping the question over a romantic dinner, consider consulting the Zagat guide for some recommendations on food and ambiance. Or choose a place that has a special meaning to you both.
  7. Creative Proposals: Another great article from Lovetripper.com about a few men and women who actually won a competition with their creative proposals. Get inspiration from the pros!
  8. Leap Year: A fun article from the Sydney Morning Herald about the fact that in Scotland it is traditionally alright for a woman to propose to a man on February 29. If you’re a brave and liberal woman, following this tradition would be a fun and unique way to get engaged.
  9. How I Got Engaged: Share your proposal story and read about what others have done on this website, meant to be a forum for the newly engaged.
  10. Romantic Ideas: Another article listing some romantic ideas for how to pop the question.
  11. Sidestep: Want to propose to your sweetie out of town? If you are planning a romantic getaway for your engagement get a great price on your flight by using Sidestep.
  12. Hotels.com: Once you have a cheap flight booked, you’ll need a romantic place to stay. Hotels.com will help you find one without breaking the bank.
  13. Romantic Music: This list of some great romantic songs will really come in handy when you start to set the mood. Infusing some soft music through the room where you plan to propose is a great way to
  14. LovingYou.com: If your romance skills need a little help, check out LovingYou.com, a website dedicated to love and the art of romance. They have quotes, poems, and real-life stories to help give you the boost you need to sweep your loved one off of her feet.

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Personalize Your Table Numbers

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Who says that you have to do traditional numbers for your table numbers? Table numbers are just another small detail that you can personalize. If you or your fiancé are woodworkers, design the numbers yourself. You could also write out the numbers instead of the traditional numerals. Pictures are another great option. Take your engagement pictures and customize them for your tables or take a pic of your precious little pouch. Another option is to name the tables after local attractions in your city. You could also use special places you and your fiancé have been to instead of numbers. Your wedding theme can also be carried out to your table numbers. For example, if you are having a beach themed wedding then name the tables things such as starfish, seashells, etc. Whatever option you choose, have it reflect your wedding and your tastes and it is sure to be a hit!

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BRIDEZILLA! 20 Proven Ways to Make your Bride Unhappy

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Wedding days are really the bride’s day. It’s the event she’s been dreaming of since she was a little girl, the one she’s been building up in her mind her entire life. Grooms must put aside their childish whims and be on their best behavior. Despite it being a day for both to celebrate, grooms must really be on their best behavior – even the most minor offense will not be tolerated. So that being the case here are a few other things a groom should definitely not do on your wedding day, lest he want to be publicly ditched at the altar.

  1. Show Up Hungover: While it’s inevitable that the groom and all of his rowdy friends will want to celebrate and/or mourn his loss of bachelor status the night before the wedding, a groom who shows up reeking of Wild Turkey, urine, and cigarettes is not going to win any brownie points with his intended. If your man has a penchant for booze, make sure he’s stocked with the necessary hangover elixirs the next day. Especially if you sense he has cold feet – the more frightened he is, the more likely he is to go on a bender in the days leading up to the event.
  2. Show Up Drunk: The only thing worse than showing up hungover is showing up fully drunk (though one could argue that arriving at your wedding after consuming a large amount of psychedelics might rank a little higher on this scale.) However, few things would put you more on edge than a groom who is spontaneously “wooing” and cheering, slurring his vows, laughing and snorting through the ceremony, basically falling over at the altar, or worst of all, carrying a beer down the aisle. Consider the story about the woman in India whose husband-to-be showed up so drunk to his own wedding that his bride married his brother instead. Do you have a back-up plan in place?
  3. Rhyming Vows: Exchanging vows is one of the most special moments of a wedding ceremony, so it’s certain to say a bride would be less than amused by a groom who decided to “lighten” the moment with his comedic or musical debut. Rhyming or rapping his vows is both embarrassing for the bride and ridiculously cheesy. What bride wants to hear her husband declare his love by saying, “Hickory dickory dock, our hearts will soon be locked. I tried to run, you wouldn’t go away, and that’s what brings us here today!”
  4. Invite an Ex: Remember when your groom asked you if he could invite his skanky ex-girlfriend who likes to call the house and hang up to the wedding? Remember when you said no? That should have been the end of it, right? Well, apparently not, because as you are walking down the aisle concentrating on looking misty-eyed and gorgeous there the harlot is in the fourth row on the groom’s side. It may take all the inner strength you possess to keep yourself from hurling your bouquet in the groom’s face and kneeing him in the groin. Inviting an ex behind the bride’s back is the ultimate no-no.
  5. Get a Facial Tattoo: Can you even fathom the feeling of horror you might experience if you showed up to the church to find your groom had fulfilled his longtime fantasy of tattooing his entire face before the wedding? Marking his face with tribal art the day before your wedding is definite grounds for immediate deportation to Papua New Guinea or northern New Zealand. Getting a tattoo to commemorate the big day is one thing, but it has to be discreet. Writing your name across his forehead in permanent ink is neither endearing nor attractive. This is the kind of faux pas that just might get some grooms left standing solo at the altar.
  6. Book His Favorite Styx Cover Band: You argued over the music for weeks. You wanted traditional DJ fare, maybe a sweet little string quartet during the ceremony and reception. He argued – quite passionately – for his favorite 80’s glam metal cover band, the kind who come complete with leather pants and eyeliner. You said no; he seemingly obliged. But then behind your back he canceled the viola player and booked the band. You show up to your reception to find a troupe of Alice Cooper look-alikes screaming racy lyrics to your horrified grandmother.
  7. Ditch His Pants: The Ralph Lauren tuxedo the two of you picked out for the wedding was so very nice. You knew your groom wanted a more casual feel, but you’d been dreaming about having a traditional, formal wedding all your life. You appreciated the fact that your man seemed so willing to sacrifice his wishes for yours. Until you hooked your arm in your father’s and looked to see your intended waiting for you at the end of the aisle in his tuxedo jacket, bow tie, and pair of plaid shorts. Hopefully, he at least wouldn’t have his groomsmen follow his lead, but, then again, maybe it would help him blend a little better. And let’s hope also that he at least had the good sense to switch from his black knee socks and lace ups to a more appropriate pair of flip flops.
  8. Keg Stands: Frat party staples like Jager bombs and keg stands should not be brought into your wedding reception, especially when it’s your groom demanding the action. A groom encouraging and pressuring your skirt-wearing Aunt Millie to hoist her legs over her head and drink beer straight from the tap while your groom and his friends lead a chorus of “Chug, chug, chugs” is not a man mature enough to handle the institution of marriage.
  9. Criticizing the Bride’s Appearance: This one is something of a no-brainer, but you would be surprised at the level of insensitivity some men possess. Despite what a bride chooses to wear or how she has cut or styled her hair, grooms should never be heard or seen making gagging noises, pretending to vomit, or blatantly asking the bride, “Geez, did you go drinking before hitting the bridal salon?” or “How did you get the ax?” Some things are better left unsaid.
  10. Dirty Dancing : If your groom really appreciates his cheesy dance moves you might want to cut him off from the reception early before he tries to wage some freaky-deaky dance warfare on your grandmother. The “running man” you can tolerate – heck, you’d even stand for a few “sprinklers” and a “Roger Rabbit” or two. But let your groom know beforehand that grinding on the guests is strictly prohibited. I mean seriously can you really imagine or would you even want to imagine Granny grinding up on Grandpa to the tune of some new Kayne West track? Classy right?
  11. Guitar Solo: If your groom has recently taken up guitar, or if he’s been at it for awhile but really just sucks, then you would likely not be too psyched if he decided to demonstrate his musical chops for your entire guest list. Avoid unwanted guitar solos or off-key serenades by opting to not hire a band and go with a DJ instead. Keep instruments far away from your husband-to-be and eliminate the risk that your man will follow through on his flamboyant urge to imitate David Lee Roth.
  12. Having his Groomsmen Wear Matching Oakley Blades: Warning: If your husband-to-be was a Phi Delt in the 80s or is just hopelessly stuck in the era, constantly reminiscing about water skiing outings made in neon pink swimming trunks, then you could be in danger of him pulling a stunt like this – asking his groomsmen to all wear matching iridescent Oakley Razor Blade sunglasses throughout the ceremony. Not only is this trend hugely unattractive and about as “with the times” as a wooly mammoth, but it’s just a sign that he can’t be trusted and will never leave the past behind. If any artifact of that decade should be left behind and forgotten, it’s this one.
  13. Moonwalk to the Altar: Your wedding day is the one day of the year – possibly of your life – that you get the hands-down right to make as grand of an entrance as possible. That’s why you have every reason to be mad as hell if your groom tries to upstage you with a grand entrance of his own. If he does anything beyond calmly and deliberately walking to his post at the altar, turn on your heels and hightail it out of there. Any moonwalking down the aisle or entrance that involves a Rush song playing in the background and special effects like smoke and lights is fair grounds to call the whole thing off.
  14. Reveals a BIG secret: Hopefully, by the time you and your intended are actually tying the knot, you will know just about everything about each other. Which is why it would be deeply disturbing if your groom decides to use the occasion as an opportunity to reveal something personal and awkward about himself. Sure, having all of your family and friends gathered together in one place makes it easy for him to get the admission off his chest in one swoop, since everyone who is important to him will be present. But having your groom steal the spotlight by confessing he’s bisexual, revealing a former drug habit, or introducing the crowd to his illegitimate, secret 10-year-old son will certainly ruin your entire day – especially if it’s news to you, too.
  15. Switch Out First Dance Song: The ceremony is over and you are gathered before your friends and family, standing in the spotlight on the dance floor, ready for your first dance with your new husband. You smile demurely, waiting for the DJ to kick on the song to which you both agreed was the perfect mood-setter for your first twirl as man and wife – “A Whole New World” by Peabo Bryson. The lights dim and the DJ hits the switch. Before you know what’s happening, your groom is grinning like a maniac, jumping around the room, and doing the chicken dance. The jerk switched out your wedding song without telling you. Horrified, you have two choices: either walk off the floor or tuck your wrists under your armpits and start clucking.
  16. Wearing Heelys: If your groom decided to forgo his tux-issued shoes for a pair of brand new Heely sneakers – the shoes with wheels in the heel – then you can take it as a sure-fire sign that your groom is one of the most immature people on the planet. Remind him that the law states a person must be over the age of 18 to get married without parental consent and then roll him out of the picture. Lets be honest if this is really something you need to explain to your groom ladies…you two are probably not going to be a match made in heaven for long. Five years from now I can see your future now and I have two words for you DIVORCE SETTLEMENT!
  17. Shave Your Name into His Head: Romantic gestures from the groom on your wedding day are very nice. One standard act of love would be sending the bride a gift – maybe some roses or some jewelry. It would even be kind of nice for him to hire a small prop plane to write your name in the sky. But shaving it into his head the morning of the wedding is not included on this list of sweet and acceptable gestures. If this happens, just hope you can catch him before your debut at the altar so you can find him a hat or shave the rest of his hair off. If your man comes to the wedding with this going on kindly send him back down the aisle with his 4th grade text book and tell him to call you in 10 years!
  18. Crying Uncontrollably: Again, sentimental gestures from the groom are nice, and tearing up a little when he sees you walking down the aisle is completely fine – even a little desirable one would think. But the man must show a little self-control. Body-wracking sobs are not the look and feel you are going for here. If your groom is crying so loud that you can’t hear your cue to say “I Do” then elbow him in the side and try to get the situation under control. If that doesn’t work, you may want to join him.
  19. Objecting, Jokingly: You know that part in the ceremony where the preacher asks that if anyone knows any reason why the bride and groom should not be married that they should speak now or forever hold their peace? It’s a moment where the crowd, and by all means the bride and groom, are really expected to remain silent. Anyone who would actually pick that moment to express their disapproval with your relationship is not a friend you want to keep. But it would be wholly worse if the person to “speak up” during the ceremony was the man you were marrying. No matter how sarcastic or joke-prone your husband is pretending to object to your own wedding is not even remotely funny.
  20. Getting Beat Up : If your groom has a nasty temper, then one thing you might be wary of is the likelihood of him showing up in suit and tie with a black eye and broken nose. That photographer is expensive for Pete’s sake and nothing is going to ruin your lifelong memories more than photos of your groom smiling broadly with missing teeth. Don’t let your groom get beat up before the wedding. Make sure any raucous behavior he engages in prior to the ceremony is far away from the town dive bar.

Pets in the Wedding~ Great Tips from Martha Stewart.com

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As you think about who will be with you on your wedding day, those who are closest to you are likely the first to come to mind. For many , that includes a family pet. There are lots of ways to involve furry (or feathered) friends in your celebration, whether in a formal role — as ring bearers or flower dogs, for example — or simply as honored guests.

Determine Your Pet’s Role
If you’re thinking of including a pet in your wedding, there are a few things to consider. Is it appropriate for the kind of ceremony you’re having? “An animal fits a certain type of affair, one at a farmhouse or a private estate, perhaps, but probably not at a fancy hotel,” says Sasha Souza, a California event designer.

If the venue does not allow pets, try to find a compromise. Michael Zorek and Shelly Friedland wanted their beagle-whippet mix, Scooter, to participate in their wedding in New York City, but neither the temple in which they were marrying nor their reception site would allow pets. So the couple had Scooter meet them at the doors of the temple (escorted by a hired dog walker), then accompany them and their guests in a procession to the reception site five blocks away. Scooter wore a bow-tie collar with a tuxedo bib for the jaunt. “People got a big kick out of it,” says Michael. “We made the evening news.”

The type of animal you have may also help dictate his role in the wedding. Some couples with smaller, less social pets such as lizards, ferrets, or guinea pigs are content simply to have the animal present at the wedding; they may ask someone to hold the pet during the ceremony or keep the animal nearby in its habitat or cage. Not all pets are suited to a wedding, and itâ??s important to assess the temperament of yours. Is he friendly or aggressive? Does he make a lot of noise? Does he steal food? If your pet’s disposition doesn’t lend itself to this type of situation, don’t try to train him in the weeks leading up to your wedding.

Be Flexible
Once you’ve decided how to include your pet, be prepared to be flexible on the wedding day. “You can’t force it,” says Marc Morrone, owner of Parrots of the World pet store in Rockville Centre, New York. “If you expect your pet to perform a certain feat, have a backup plan in case he doesn’t do it.”

Also, consider your own personality. A relaxed attitude is crucial. During the outdoor ceremony of Sarah St. Onge and Andrew Howell in St. Helena, California, Sarahâ??s dog, Piper, suddenly began barking. “She saw a squirrel,” says Andrew. “But the barks were well timed,” adds Sarah. “Piper punctuated the wedding vows and added an element of humor.” And it’s warm, lighthearted surprises like this that make a wedding memorable.

Planning with a Pet in Mind
Inform Your Attendants
Well in advance, inform attendants and vendors that your pet will play a role, and discuss special measures you’d like them to take. Also notify your officiant. Some may refuse to preside over a wedding that includes pets.

Never Leave Your Pet Alone
Consider hiring a handler with whom the pet is already acquainted, or have a friend be responsible for the pet during the wedding.

Anticipate Potential Hazards
Ask at the wedding site about pesticides or toxic plants on the grounds, and about creatures that might distract or threaten your pet. If your florist is adorning your pet’s collar, be sure she uses nontoxic materials. And keep pets, especially dogs, someplace safe during the reception so guests won’t feed them. Certain wedding fare, including chocolate, alcohol, and meat with bones, can be dangerous.

Practice Makes Perfect
Bring your pet to the site before the wedding day, and have him come to the rehearsal to practice his part if he will be participating in the ceremony.

The Other “Groom”
Take the animal to the groomer before the wedding so he’ll look his best. Keep adornments minimal and easy for the pet to wear. Don’t make him wear them for longer than is necessary.
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Penny Pinchers:50 Tips to Help You Pay for Your Own Wedding

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Some of us aren’t endowed with trust funds or uber-rich parents. If that’s the case, it means preparing for your wedding can be something of a stressful chore. With the average cost of weddings these days topping $20,000, it certainly can cause some worry. But don’t fret – there are many ways to cut costs and still have a fabulous wedding. Here are some tips on how throw a classy wedding on a dime.

Loans

You will clearly need to save, save, save if you’re going to foot the bill for your wedding, but the good news is that some of the costs can be financed. In the unfortunate addition to racking up some credit card debt, you can rack up some old-fashioned bank-loan debt, as well. It may sound somewhat formal and heavy for such a happy occasion, but it’s pretty common to take out a loan to help cover your expenses. And lots of banks have plans to suit your financial needs. But a warning to the wise – while it’s easy to get a loan, it’s also easy to fall into a money-sucking trap. Try to go for loans that allow for a short payback term to reduce the amount you’re spending on interest and stay on top of your payments!!! Don’t let the most joyous day of your life lead you to financial ruin. Loans can get great if used properly, but its advisable to pay with saving for the wedding… be responsible!

  1. Bridal Loans.com: Bridal Loans is a California-based company that offers loans between the amount of $1,500 and $25,000. They also offer payment plans that extend from 12 to 48 months, so you can pay the loan off as fast as you want. With an interest rate at 12.9 percent, it’s better to pay these loans off quickly. But, if you’re in a bind, this company can definitely help you meet your needs.
  2. Bank of America: This mega-bank offers loans of up to $50,000, which can be spent on flowers, cakes, dresses, or food. You won’t have to put up any collateral to qualify and you’ll pay no annual fee. While interest rates fluctuate, they do go as low as 8.99 percent.
  3. American Unsecured: This company makes it easy to get a loan for any amount up to $50,000. You can pay the borrowed amount off over 24 to 84 months. The long loan term relieves the pressure, and the application is easy to fill out. Interest rates here can rival those at Bank of America, going as low as 8.99 percent.
  4. Citibank: Citibank, like many banks, has what it calls a Flex Line of Cash, which works just like a home equity loan. Offered at an interest rate of 9.99 percent, you can take out a loan to spend on whatever your heart desires. The loan term is automatically set at 60 months, but you can change that to make it shorter.
  5. Loan Back: This easy-to-use service offers low interest rates and super-detailed plans. Simply enter the amount you’re borrowing and the reason for the loan and the online tool will calculate your monthly payments immediately and let you know the total amount of interest you’ll pay over the term. Convenient, reasonable, and hassle-free.
  6. Capital One: Capital One provides very flexible personal loans that can be used for whatever you want. Payment terms are flexible and the application can be completed online. The interest rate of 6.99 percent is also pretty low in comparison to other lenders and you’ll be guaranteed to pay the same fixed amount each month.
  7. E Loan: This company provides consumers a variety of personal loans up to $25,000 without homeownership required. The detailed and helpful website allows you to do most of the math online and also fill out the application. No annual fees are required, either.
  8. America First: America First offers flexible personal loans that can be payed off over many different lengths of time. Clearly, the longer you stretch it out, the lower the interest rate. And like most lenders, rates will increase depending on your credit history. But it’s a credible credit union with a plethora of options for the consumer.
  9. Wells Fargo: Wells Fargo is another national bank with a solid reputation for providing flexible personal loans. And if you pay off the loan directly from your Wells Fargo account, you’ll pay even more. Definitely worth some research here to see if it’s the bank for you.
  10. Bank Rate: If you’re still not convinced that any of these options are up your alley, try this website that allows you to see what’s available. Compare interest rates and graph the rate trends all within a few minutes. By using an objective comparison site like this one, you’ll be confident in your choice.

How to Save Money

So now you know that if push comes to shove you will be able to get some financial assistance for your wedding in the form of a loan. But you may want to save that for a last resort. The very first thing you need to do when planning a wedding on your own dime is start saving! You many not think that you’re a spendaholic, but you would be surprised at how many extra costs you can cut out if you just put your mind to it. Here are a few ways to start fattening up your bank account.

  1. Track Your Spending: All debt gurus will tell you that you can’t start being smart about your money until you understand why you are so bad with it in the first place. For one entire week, write down everything that you spend money on. You can use a simple piece of paper or go more formal with software like Excel or Quicken. At the end of the week, study your habits and make notes about where you can cut out the extra dollars.
  2. Cut Out Extras: Now it’s time to tighten the belt a little. Stop going out to eat so much and start cooking at home, rent movies instead of hitting up the theater, make coffee in the morning instead of stopping at Starbucks. While you don’t have to totally deprive yourself, if you are spending money on entertainment or unnecessary items every day you can save a fortune by taking a more frugal route.
  3. Conserve Energy: Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you know that energy costs these days are through the roof. There are so many things you can do to shrink your utility costs. Make sure all of your lights and fans are turned off when not in use, turn the heat and air conditioning down, and unplug appliances when they’re not in use. Making small changes like this will impact both your billfold and your carbon footprint.
  4. Bike: Another way to save bukus of money is by changing your transportation habits. Park that old gas-guzzling clunker in the garage and hop on the bus. Or take your bike instead and get some exercise while helping the environment.
  5. Be Responsible: A lackadaisical outlook toward your existing debt can wreak havoc on your finances in the form of astronomical late fees. Examine your credit cards and other financial accounts and see what the late fees and interest rates are for not being on top of your payments. They will add up fast and can easily sneak by you if you are not vigilant.
  6. Go Vintage: Forgo shopping trips to Neiman Marcus and Saks. If you need some new garments, check out the local second hand thrift stores and vintage shops in your area. You’ll spend less on clothes and amass a fashionable and unique wardrobe at the same time.
  7. Hide Your Credit Cards: You may not want to go totally without credit cards, but you may definitely want to think about at least hiding them or not keeping them on your person. Credit cards encourage indiscriminate spending and will only help you wrack up more debt. Spend money you actually have and you’ll stay above the water, financially speaking.
  8. Get a Roommate: If you have a little extra space in your home, consider taking on a boarder to generate some extra income. Or if you live in an apartment or home that is way too big and expensive, move into a more humble abode until after your wedding. Living with other people will cut all of your current expenses in half.
  9. Have a Garage Sale: Make some money on the stuff that’s cluttering up your house by holding a garage or yard sale. And don’t fall into the trap of under pricing everything – if an item is special, people will be willing to spend. Plus, haggling is a common occurrence at yard sales, so make sure you start on the high end.
  10. Ebay: In the same vein as holding a garage sale, you can also make money by hocking your wares on the internet. Place some high dollar items that you don’t need anymore on Ebay and hold out for the highest bidder. Lots of people make their entire living doing this. Just think what an entire annual salary could do for your wedding budget.

D.I.Y.

Doing it yourself could not be more hip these days. And honestly there are so many things you actually can do yourself. While it may sound daunting at first, armed with a few simple guidebooks and instructions, you can essentially make anything that you would possibly need for your wedding even if you aren’t the craftiest bride. Making things yourself will help you cut costs, while also earning you the admiration of all your guests.

  1. Bouquet: Making a wedding bouquet is one of the easiest things to tackle on your wedding accessory list. You may have to wake up extra early on your wedding day, but assembling and wrapping up some flowers is not difficult and actually might be very therapeutic. Stick to flowers that are in season or cheap by nature, like daisies, sunflowers, freesia and Sweet William, to keep costs down even more.
  2. Veil: Do you have any idea how expensive veils are these days? If you don’t, you may not want to risk a heart attack by looking into the matter. If you do, enough said. The good thing for you is that veils are extremely inexpensive and pretty darn simple to make, and there are dozens of resource guides to be found online and in fabric stores.
  3. Programs and Placecards: If you are planning to have paper items like programs and place cards at your wedding, you don’t have to spend a ton on some fancy graphic designer. These items are just as easy to design and print yourself if you have even the most basic color printer. If you’re artistic abilities are really bad, look for templates online and plug in your personal information!
  4. Hair Accessories : So you want some nice beaded accents or ribbon-laced barrettes for you and your bridesmaids? No sweat. Make them yourself by buying the raw materials and a glue gun. Just look for photos of examples and copy it. If you’re having trouble, enroll in a weekend craft workshop and ask the instructor for help.
  5. Seat Covers: This one may be a bit adventurous for some and you will definitely need a sewing machine, but it is possible to make your own seat covers and avoid rental fees. However, it may be less hassle to find the basic covers for cheap and then tie on your own ribbons or decorations. Some rental companies loan sheaths for as low as $2 a pop! Do some research and find what’s right for you.
  6. Invitations: Just like your programs or other paper products, it’s very easy to make your own wedding invitations. If you are dealing with a large quantity, you may want to outsource the printing, but designing the concept can be done for free. Bring your costs down by using recycled paper.
  7. Jewelry: If there’s anything we’ve learned from the plethora of bead stores around, it’s that anyone can make their own jewelry. The same goes for wedding jewelry. As long as your not looking to be covered in diamonds – and given your budget, we’re assuming you’re not – then you can follow any pattern of your choice to make your own earrings, necklaces, and bracelets. This could also be a fun activity for your bachelorette party – everyone makes the jewelry they plan to wear!
  8. Bridesmaids Gifts: You’ve got to get them something, but it doesn’t have to break the bank. Plus, a homemade gift is always more special than something store bought. Now that you know how to make jewelry, you could make them earrings, hand paint or decorate some nice picture frames, or make a personalized scrapbook for each friends with details you’re your friendship.
  9. Dresses : This money-saving option is not for the meek. Making your own dress requires a lot of time, patience and skill. But if you have those it can be done.
  10. Make Your Own Accessories: All you need is a needle and thread to make your own pillow for your ring bearer. Brainstorm about other non-complicated accessories you can cobble together yourself and get a bit crafty.

General Tips to Keep Your Costs Down

Cutting back on the amount of hired help at your wedding is one solid way you can keep costs down. Here are some general rules to employ so you can pull off a great wedding without working too much overtime.

  1. Money Tree: Let your guests help pay for the celebration. Instead of registering for gifts, register a money tree. Have your guests give you money instead of unnecessary pearl-encrusted picture frames. The money tree makes gift giving easy for your guests and beneficial for you.
  2. Keep the Guest List Small: This may be easier said than done for some of you, but one way to do this is to limit the affair to close friends and immediate family. Don’t worry about offending your great Aunt Pearl – it’s your day! One way to get around hurt feelings is to hold a very simple reception at your home after the wedding for those who couldn’t come to the ceremony. And if you do have a big list, don’t let friends bring random dates. Cut corners any way you can by eliminating the people who don’t really matter.
  3. Be Your Own DJ: With all of the music technology out there today, you really, really don’t need to hire a DJ for your reception. Make a few playlists appropriate for the different settings you will have at your ceremony, have someone press play, and don’t give it another thought. Why pay someone for something you can get for free?
  4. Bake Your Own Cake: While catering your own wedding may be asking a bit much, one thing you could easily do is bake your own cake. How hard is it to mix up some batter? You may need some assistance or lessons on how to do the icing skillfully, but there’s lots of resources available online and in bookstores for you to be your own teacher.
  5. Get a Cheap Dress: There are plenty of dress merchants who specialize in cheap, affordable gowns that look like they just fell off a designer’s frame. When it comes down to it, you can even find a great, stylish, white dress in your local mall. Keep it simple and no one will even think twice about who you’re wearing on your wedding day. Have a seamstress in the family? Ask them to copy the dress of your dreams for a fraction of the price or in lieu of a wedding gift.
  6. Stay Home: Cut out those monstrous event location rental fees by holding your wedding in your living room or your backyard. If you live in a nasty apartment building, consider your parents’ house or the home of a friend or relative. If you can’t think of anyone, hold your wedding at a local state park or other outdoor location that won’t charge you a fee.
  7. Make Your Own Favors: Don’t spend a dime on fancy favors – take the chance to make your own! Maybe you’re a knitter and can cobble together some cool coasters or beer koozies? Or maybe you’re just an Average Joe with no real creative abilities. In that case, make a mix CD of the songs that mean the most to you and your hubby.
  8. Save on Photography: Ask a friend or remote acquaintance who’s handy with a camera to shoot your wedding and save bundles on expensive photographers. Don’t know anyone off hand? Try inquiring at local photojournalism programs about seniors or grad students who have impressive portfolios. Chances are they’re still looking to add more work to their resume, so you can often get a student to do it for completely free.
  9. Compare Prices: If you’re trying to have a cheap wedding, you cannot be lazy. Be super vigilant about comparing the prices of every vendor in town and in surrounding towns. Hit up internet chat boards and ask other budgeted brides what they ended up paying for various services so you’ll know exactly when you’re being scammed or overcharged.
  10. Cancel the Wedding Planner: While having a wedding planner may reduce your stress and stand to reassure you that you’re not missing anything important, they’re really not necessary unless you have little-to-no time to do any planning. If you do, however, check out any number of wedding websites. Most offer free online workbook tools and checklists that you can use and follow as a reference for free. Having everything documented will calm you and ensure everything is on track.
  11. Online Invites: Save money on design, printing, and postage by sending online invitations to your guests. There are so many web services that make this process easy and that offer fun designs. Also, using online invites saves you a lot of work, because the site will keep a running tally of who is coming to your wedding, who is not, and why. You can also link your invite to your registries, send reminders, directions, all of which make it easy on your guests as well.
  12. Do Your Own Hair: Forget the expensive stylists – you’re not Angelina Jolie. But you can still look fabulous for free if you do your own hair. Many hairstyle websites have step-by-step instructions for different styles or you can go chic and simple by wearing your hair down and natural. Even ponytails are now popular options for wedding dos, so don’t sweat the small stuff.
  13. Do your Own Makeup: You do your own makeup every day, and chances are you don’t look hideous. What special magic is a makeup artist really going to pull beyond making you look like someone you’re not. Study up on some techniques and do your makeup yourself. If you’re really struggling, enlist the help of your mom or another friend.
  14. Have a Brunch: Eggs are so inexpensive they’re almost free. In general, breakfast foods cost a fraction of the cost of hearty, gourmet dinner foods. By hosting a morning wedding, you’ll not only get to take advantage of cheaper rental rates, but you’ll save a bundle on your food bill, as well. And you’ll also fare well on your alcohol bill since people are less likely to drink in the morning.
  15. Cheap Flowers: When ordering flowers, remember a couple of things: stay in season and stay common. Exotic flowers will cost you a pretty penny. But you can also cut costs by ordering from wholesale distributors rather than local florists. Try to avoid extra fees if you can.
  16. Embrace the Odd Hour: One way to avoid the issue of food all together is to hold your ceremony and reception at an odd hour. Try 2 p.m. or late at night. That way most people will have already eaten and likely not be concerned about food. All you have to worry about are the beverages.
  17. Cash Bar: Cash bars at weddings are often thought to be no-nos, but frankly, liquor, wine and beer will end up comprising about 25 percent of your total bill if you pay for an open bar. It’s totally acceptable to make people pay for their own alcohol. To make this less of an issue, have an afternoon ceremony so people won’t be focused on drinking as much. Another option is to offer a cheap wine and beer for free but charge for the hard stuff.

Summer Wedding Tips:100 Resources to Simplify Your Wedding

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If you’re getting married in the summer, you have a whole host of things you need to consider to make sure your wedding is comfortable. While spring and fall brides can just bask in the cool and moderate temperatures, summer brides are often going up against melting heats, seasonal rains, and the discomfort of itchy fabrics. When planning your summer wedding, take the following 100 tips and resources into consideration.
Location

If you have any control over the location of your wedding, try to steer clear of the desert and the south, unless you’re near water. And even then, you need to think about the region’s average temperatures and how to best work with them. For example, if you must get married in Phoenix or Atlanta in July, please consider only indoor venues. If you have some flexibility, however, think about having a destination wedding at some of these extremely pleasant summer locales.

  1. San Francisco: Are you going to San Francisco? Yes. Especially if you are getting married in the summer. The city is gorgeous, with sandblasted-white buildings and a gorgeous backdrop of grassy foothills. Plus, the region is overflowing with a number of good wineries and amazing chefs. Look into picturesque locations in Napa and Sonoma valleys north of the city, check out the beautiful coastal spots south at Half Moon Bay, or get comfortable at one of the luxurious hotels downtown.
  2. Montana: Going north in the summer is a good call, especially when that northern location has the beauty of the mountains of Montana. Montana has many lake resorts and isolated vistas that will take your breath away. If you’re a bride with a country spirit, Montana is definitely worth a look.
  3. Nova Scotia: If you’re an East Coast type of bride think about Nova Scotia. With average July temperatures hovering between 68 and 77 degrees the weather couldn’t be more perfect. Plus, you can easily pick from many seaside resorts. Just think about the wedding photo of you and your hubby in front of one of the country’s iconic lighthouses.
  4. Vancouver Island: OK, so you’re a West Coast kind of bride. Check out Vancouver Island, off the coast from the city of Vancouver in British Columbia. Not only does the island have an active and photogenic city, but it is surrounded by the Pacific Ocean and mountains in the distance. A very beautiful locale accompanied by perfect summer temperatures.
  5. Ruidoso, New Mexico: Ruidoso is located in the mountains of New Mexico and unlike the other parts of this desert state it offers cool summer temperatures, beautiful mountain views, and plenty of rivers and lakes. Ruidoso also has a very cute downtown area that caters to tourists – a perfect place for your guests to mill about during their free time.
  6. Alaska: We’ve all heard about the monstrous mosquitoes that plague Alaska each summer, but have you heard about the beautiful weather, snowcapped mountains, and glorious pine trees? Most people dream of going to Alaska, so why not take them there in the summer? You can choose to get married on the coast, on a lake or in the Yukon.
  7. Hawaii: Yes, it gets hot in Hawaii in the summer, but it’s a bearable heat. Let’s face it, Hawaii is pretty much a good option for a wedding no matter what the time of year, despite the rainy season in the winter months. But summer temps in Hawaii are moderate and breezy with a constant ocean wind. And the island culture makes for a festive locale.
  8. Lake Erie, Ontario: Right across the border from Buffalo, New York is a quieter, more isolated area of Lake Erie. Another excellent Canadian destination, consider crossing the border just slightly and checking out such quaint locations like the Buffalo Canoe Club.
  9. Colorado: Mountains galore is what you’ll find in Colorado and you can pretty much guarantee beautiful scenery in any mountain town, whether it be Crested Butte, Teluride, Durango, Breckenridge, or Estes Park. Just warn your guests about the altitude change!
  10. Oregon: Whether you are looking for a beach wedding, a city wedding, or a mountain wedding, look no further than Oregon, a state that has all of this plus gorgeous summer temperatures to boot. Check out Portland, Mount Hood, Eugene, and Astoria, to name a few.

Bridal Dresses

The key to summer bridal dresses is cool, cool, cool – and of course stylish! And more than any other seasonal bride, those of you marrying in the summer need to think about comfort and breathable fabrics. No one wants a sweaty bride. Even if you get married in a temperate climate you will still be dealing with some sun. Look for fabrics like chiffon, organza, cotton eyelet, crepe, and definitely go minimal with the sleeves and the skirts. Here are a few excellent dress styles to consider.

  1. Alfred Angelo: This strappy, simple dress is a perfect example of a summer wedding gown. It’s fitted, but not too tight; airy, but not too causal. And the lightweight lace and gentle beaded accents make for a radiant look that isn’t overdone.
  2. Platinum by Priscilla Short Crepe: This dress is a terrific consideration for a modern, highly sophisticated bride that wants to retain an elegant style while also meshing with the season. This mini-dress is highly movable, falling slightly above the knee and featuring a lovely tulle overlay that lends the dress a sheer, light quality.
  3. Amsale Summer 2008: If you’re looking for a long dress and don’t want to stick to a feminine, princess theme, check out these dresses from Amsale’s new summer line. Most all gowns are floor length and are constructed to be light while still looking full. All the gowns are strapless, accenting the collar bone, and there are a variety of summery looks to choose from, whether you want satin, lace or both!
  4. Paula Varsalona: This dress is an incredible combination of the elegant and casual and would be a great pick for a beach or outdoor wedding. The sheath-style silk and chiffon gown is loose while still looking fitted, and the architectural V-neck gives it class and technical points. This summer bride will look picture-perfect no matter where she weds.
  5. Melissa Sweet Short Lace: A short, A-line gown that screams garden wedding, this dress is simple and stylish; light and cool. The designer didn’t overdo the details and therefore gets great style points for summer wedding dress design. The lace will conceal any perspiration a bride might have and the gentle lavender bow beneath the waist is a great color accent for the season.
  6. Amsale Short: You’ve seen most of Amsale’s long gowns for this season, so now you have to check out one of their shorter numbers. This knee-length bead dress looks so comfy you almost want to sleep in it. Yet it’s also very glamorous and trendy. The beaded V-line straps also add a unique design element to this very light, summery dress.
  7. David’s Bridal Chiffon A-Line: A great dress for summer, this one is made with all the right materials, namely a very sheer chiffon, that falls gracefully to the floor without weighing down the bride. The pleated bodice adds beauty and style to a simple A-line cut and you can practically see the gown moving with a gentle breeze. An excellent, stylish choice for a no-frills bride or an outdoor wedding.
  8. Essence of Australia: A clingy gown that doesn’t accentuate unflattering areas, this floor-length gown is also made of chiffon and is a light option for a bride that still wants a layered look. A strapless gown that’s both sexy and beach casual.
  9. Angel Sanchez: A great look for a funkier bride, this gown by Angel Sanchez is short and sassy. The cut is such that the gown keeps its distance from the bride’s skin, allowing for a little air conditioning. And the gathered neckline and skirt ruffle is very cute and unique. This gown will keep you cool and stylish.
  10. Adele Weschler: Canadian designer Adele Weschler is a master of summer-ready dress designs. So many of her styles incorporate light, flowy fabrics and floral details. She’s a designer that really runs the gamut from simple to ornate and keeps romance and femininity in mind at all times. Check out her latest looks for some inspiration!

Bridesmaids Dresses

Your bridesmaids dresses are almost as important to setting the look and feel of your wedding as your own dress is. Summer is a great time to take advantage of fun and flirty styles and colors for your closest friends. For those of you seeking a casual wedding, think hard about the kinds of dresses your maids could wear again. No one likes to spend lots of money on a dress they’re just going to wear once and give away. Here are a few looks to consider.

  1. Eden Maids: This little number comes in about any color imaginable and is made of a free flowing chiffon material that is stylish and simple. Your bridesmaids will appreciate your departure from the staid tried and true looks and the pleated bust and delicate ribbon add a valued element of style.
  2. Go Gray: This gray number by Laundry is flirty, fun and neutral – just think how well a bouquet of bright pink red or orange flowers would stand out against this stylish backdrop. Plus, this is a dress that your bridesmaids will thank you for – it’s multi-faceted and could be worn to a cocktail party or a club.
  3. Navy Patterned J.Crew: Have fun with some bold patterns! Check out this sassy number from J. Crew. It’s strapless, comfortable, and super-stylish and can definitely be worn again in a variety of situations. Love the bold floral patter on the skirt, as well – definitely different from your typical bridesmaids dress.
  4. BCBG Satin: This dress is a gorgeous shade of blue and features a very attractive and cute design of satin tiered pleating followed by a tulle hem. It’s fun and dressy and versatile all at once and a great shade for summer.
  5. Nicole Miller Fuschia: An excellent, excellent choice for your bridesmaids, this short Nicole Miller dress has a simple cut, but a lot of style. The color is bold and feminine, the draping is expertly done, and the fabric is very breathable. Your friends will thank you for giving the gift of fashion and comfort.
  6. Vera Wang Goddess Gown: How romantic is this dress? The light sky-blue fabric hangs beautifully, creating interesting lines. The material, color, and style couldn’t be more summery if it tried and again even though this is a floor-length dress it’s something that can definitely be re-worn.
  7. Vera Wang Short: Cute and ladylike, this cream colored gown is accented by a black waistband and presents another perfect outfit for a summer bridesmaid. The bubble skirt is very in right now and the sweetheart bodice gives the otherwise simple dress a little texture.
  8. Bebe Slip Dress: Go easy on your bridesmaids’ wallet and give them a little sex appeal with this tight black number from Bebe. Clearly a reusable dress, black is a very popular wedding color – especially appropriate for night weddings. This dress is both sexy and classy.
  9. La Femme Bubble Dress: This spunky, funky strapless dress is a great shade of cherry red. The gathered skirt and well-cut bodice are fashionable and would fit many a body type. A very flirtatious style, indeed.
  10. Betsey Johnson Sea Foam: This cute, ballerina-like dress from Betsey Johnson is a great color and style for summer. Baby blue with a broad pink sash and tulle edging, this dress will stand out and make your bridesmaids look gorgeous!

Hairstyles

The style for summer weddings is light and breezy, so when you’re thinking about how to do your hair steer clear of tight buns and harsh updos. Summer styles are all about flowing locks and tousled curls. Here are a few examples of some looks you’ll definitely want to consider for summer.

  1. Simple Waves: A classic look for any bride, if you’ve got long, luxurious locks, show ‘em off. Go for big easy waves cascading down your back and gently framing your face.
  2. Windswept Updo: This wavy, messy-yet-controlled updo is modern and sophisticated. Get your hair out of your face while still making it a main focal point of your look.
  3. Floral Accent: A loose and layered updo elegantly accented with one strong floral hairpin. A gorgeous look that is definitely in line with the spirit of the season.
  4. Wavy Headband: This look is so cute and mod – it’s perfect for the bride with an impeccable sense of style and a flirtatious nature. It can be worn with a preppy or a funky dress. And it’s unique – you rarely see a bride wearing a headband.
  5. Retro Short: A retro style for a bride with a hip sense of style and short hair. Pin some small calla lilies into a tousle of pin curls.
  6. Natural Updo: The brilliance behind this style is that it’s so natural and simple it looks like the bride did it herself moments before walking down the aisle. A wonderful style that would really suit a casual outdoor wedding.
  7. Long, Soft Curls: A beautiful look, pulling a few strands of hair away from the front of your face is a romantic and classic style.
  8. Long Curly Headband: If you’re going to play around with hair accessories like headbands, try positioning them in between the front and back locks to create a little depth. Also, try out different accessory styles. This headband’s silver, jeweled look adds a fancy touch.
  9. Curly Ponytail: This pulled back bunch of curls is well-accented by flowers. The bangs give the look more layers and the bride achieves the goal of looking both beautiful and carefree at the same time.
  10. Bright Flower: Get bold with your accents, like this bride who used a well-placed, poppy-colored anemone over her right ear. Summer is a colorful and bold season, so your style and accessories should be, too. Be brave and stand out! This look can work for long or short hair, too.

Flowers

Summer weddings are ideal for flower arrangements, since many beautiful species are in bloom during these months. Still, while several varietals are available during the summer keep in mind the temperatures and weather conditions of your chosen location. Obviously, some flowers do better than others in strong heats, winds, or cooler temperatures. Here are some options for your floral arrangements and how they will stack up against your conditions.

  1. Dahlias: These round little pinwheels come in all sorts of colors and different varieties. They’re sturdy and bold while still being feminine and cute. They make a great addition to a centerpiece or can be carried on their own. Check out the Dahlia Aurora Kiss for a truly mesmerizing bud or the Aspen range for a more delicate, dreamy look.
  2. Calla Lilies: The Calla Lily is a very common and standard choice for a wedding, and the reason is because it’s a flower that can stand on it’s own. Its independence and complete elegance is testament to why. Consider a bunch tied together with a delicate ribbon or have your bridesmaids carry one long stem each. They also make an excellent and strong centerpiece for a table arrangement.
  3. Daisy: A classic flower that is both beautiful, cute, and simple. The daisy is a great choice for those brides seeking a casual wedding experience. They signify the innocence of childhood and the playfulness of love. Not a high-tech flower, but a very communicative one, indeed.
  4. Sunflowers: Sunflowers, always iconic, are a terrific choice for summer weddings, mostly because the summer months are when they peak. Plus, if you’re getting married outside – maybe on a mountain top or in a garden – sunflowers are an even better choice because they are a signature wildflower. Consider pairing them with a colorful purple flower like an iris or some gentle lavender.
  5. Zinnias: They come in purple, yellow, pink, orange and green to name a few colors and like Dahlias the Zinnia flower resembles a delicate, fun pinwheel. Play with the colors, insert them into a diverse bouquet, or let them stand alone in huge bunches. The Zinnia is a gorgeous summer flower that will fit in well with any wedding theme or style.
  6. Gerber Daisies: While gerber daisies are available throughout most of the year, they have a playful, fun look that makes them very appropriate for summer weddings. Plus, they’re colorful, so you can pick and choose the shade that best matches your theme.
  7. Hydrangeas: Looking for a bold flower that defines less is more? Then look no further than the hydrangea plant. One clipping is enough for an entire centerpiece or bouquet. This full flower is powerful and establishes a strong presence. It’s available in all sorts of colors and also peaks during the summer. Watch out, though, for high winds or extremely hot conditions, because the hydrangea is as bold as it is frail and tends to wilt quickly in harsh weather.
  8. Hyancinth: This playful, star-shaped flower comes in many colors and seems to exemplify the literal expression of one heart giving itself to another. The sturdy petals will hold up to many summer weather conditions, while retaining a delicate and feminine look.
  9. Cosmos: The Cosmos is a humble flower that is the embodiment of warm wishes and sentimentality. Perfect for a garden wedding or an outside wedding the Cosmos is cute and happy, and while it comes in only a few colors — pinks, white and chocolate brown – the colors are blendable with many wedding themes and styles. They aren’t available though until mid-spring, so you June brides may have to look elsewhere.
  10. Gladiolus: The strength of the Gladiolus is quite formidable and while you may want to mix other flowers in with this varietal to make it a little more feminine and delicate, it’s a flower that is sure to make a bold accent to any arrangement. And considering all the colors available it will be easy to match to any color scheme.

Summer Wedding Themes

Summer is a great time to play with color and flowers and go big with them both! Whether you are getting married at the beach or in your backyard, there are so many creative and exciting things one can do to liven up an outdoor space. Here a re just a few style points and trends to use as a guide.

  1. Nautical: If you’re getting married lakeside or seaside, consider a nautical theme. Navy, yellow, and gold are the colors to look to for this preppy style. Use decorative ropes throughout your reception area and sailboat-shaped place cards.
  2. Garden: Garden weddings are the ultimate style trend for summer and you can go with this theme in just about any location. The key to carrying it off is lots and lots of cascading flowers, pastels, and ribbons. Go with neutral, natural colors, hang lights from trees, and use chair covers with wide sashes.
  3. Environmentally Conscious: The absolute biggest and brightest trend for wedding themes this year is going green. And what better time to defy global warming than during the warmest months of all? Make everything about your wedding eco-friendly and take the color of the movement literally – green is an excellent color scheme for a summer wedding!
  4. Starlight: Make your wedding sparkle with diamond accents and some creative lighting! Hold your reception at night and use twinkling spotlights and candles to make it feel like you’re dancing under the stars. Go for a color theme of silver, diamond white, navy and plum.
  5. In Bloom: Flowers, flowers everywhere is a great theme for summer wedding. Pick a refined, yet happy flower, like the cherry blossom, to pull of this theme in a more casual way. Or if you’re going the fancy route, douse your reception with orchids or calla lilies and breath in the fragrances.
  6. Color Coded: Pick a color and stick with it. Monotone weddings are all the rage these days, especially if you choose in colors like off-white, lavender, and green. Once you choose your color, accent your décor by going a shade lighter or darker in different areas. This will create a layered look and make your space look bigger.
  7. Down Home: For those brides who are most down-to-earth, you might be comfortable having a down home country wedding in the comfort of your own backyard. Decorate with gingham table clothes and napkins, lay out your spread on a picnic table, and ask your guests to dress casual. Or look into hosting your ceremony and reception at a local ranch or winery in the country.
  8. Citrus Grove: The trendy colors for 2008 are yellows, oranges, and greens, so take one, two or all of them and combine them together for a citrus-themed wedding. Dress your bridesmaids in yellows, serve cocktails made with orange juice, and use the theme of a citrus tree for your centerpieces. There are so many ways to have fun with these vibrant and crisp colors.
  9. Floral Lanterns: Flowers are big during summer weddings, but if you don’t want to go overboard on the real thing, incorporate them into your look through different fabrics. Tie a floral-print sash around your chairs, use printed table cloths, and hang flowery tea lamps around your reception area. Accent the heavy prints with delicate-looking flowers, like baby’s breath and iris.
  10. Trendy Lounge: Find a great outdoor space for your reception and decorate it with large cushions and brightly-colored throw pillows. Hang some paper lanterns or tea lights around the area and soak in the chill vibe. This trend can be enhanced with some ambient music.

Staying Cool in Hot Weather

Keeping your guests cool is a must if you want your wedding to be pleasant and if you want to avoid having someone pass out from heat exhaustion during your vows. There are many ways you can work around your surroundings to provide comfort to your adoring guests. Here are some things to keep in mind.

  1. Air Conditioning: Air conditioning is an obvious way to make sure your guests stay cool. Look at venues that offer air conditioning if you’re planning a long ceremony or raucous reception. If you’re getting married in a particularly hot climate, this is a must. Outdoor venues aren’t appropriate if it’s 100 degrees out.
  2. Cool Tents: If you must have an outdoor wedding, however, consider stationing a few cooling tents around the ceremony and reception area. Erect tents tall enough for people to stand upright and install some portable air conditioners. That way guests can duck in and out to cool down as they need to.
  3. Electric Fans: If air conditioning is not an option – and even if it is – you may still want to test the air circulation in your chosen venue. If it’s poor or stifling, get some electric fans to keep things ventilated. Look into quieter more energy efficient models to use during the ceremony.
  4. Paper Fans: Aside from being a great decoration for your table settings, paper fans are helpful in helping people keep cool. Place one on each chair at your ceremony and reception so that guests have them handy when they need a little breeze.
  5. Positioning: Think strongly about where you’re positioning your tables and chairs before setting up. What time is your ceremony? Where will the sun be then? Can you seat your guests under a tree so they can enjoy some shade? Figuring out how nature will spread itself across your venue beforehand will give you some handy ideas on where and how to conduct your wedding.
  6. Morning and Night: If temperatures in your area get frighteningly high during the daytime, why not consider holding your wedding early in the morning or late at night? While a little unconventional, a morning or night wedding will create a memorable experience for everyone while providing some natural relief. Serve brunch and mimosas for a morning wedding; get creative with some spotlights at night and create a whole new feel.
  7. Popsicles: Have items on hand that will help cool off your guests, like popsicles. Ask your caterer if he or she can make their own or just go to the store for some tried and true frozen treats. You can have your servers hand them out before and after the ceremony and as they’re walking into the reception, and keep a supply handy behind the bar.
  8. Parasoles:Invest in some bright and colorful parasols that your guests can use at their leisure during your ceremony and reception. If you’re feeling generous, you might consider allowing them to take them home as a favor; if not, see if there’s a local business that might rent you a supply for the day.
  9. Canopies: If trees and indoor spaces aren’t at your immediate disposal, create your own artificial shields with some well-placed canopies. You can find huge reception tents or smaller coverings through a variety of dealers across the country.
  10. Koozies: What? Koozies are tacky, you say? No way! Think about keeping your guests’ drinks sweat free and look into ordering some personalized drink koozies for your big day. It’s a cute and original wedding favor that everyone will notice and use for years to come!

Drinks

One sure fire way to keep yourself and your guests calm, cool, and collected at your wedding is through some fun, festive and refreshing summer drinks. The common thread among all of these options is that they’re cold, cold, cold! Think frozen margaritas, slushy punches, and lots of ice. Here are some great cocktails to stock behind your reception bar and the good news is that many of them can be made without alcohol!

  1. Viognier: No wedding would be complete without wine, and during the summer you’re going to want to look to white wines since they can be served cold. Look for a light, crisp wine like a viognier, a rare variety that is both sweet and complex. Make sure your bartender is serving small pours so the wine stays cold throughout. If you’re unfamiliar with viogniers, try the one made by Becker Vineyards – it’s delicious and affordable.
  2. Cider: A beer drink that both men and women can enjoy alike, ciders are so very refreshing on a hot, summer day, they’re light so they won’t weigh your guests down, and many are gluten free – a plus if some of your guests suffer from celiac disease. Spice up your cider offerings and consider a mixed drink, like the Devon Gin, a mixture of cider, gin, and triple sec.
  3. Cucumber Martini: It may sound strange, but cucumber martinis are delicious and very refreshing in hot conditions. Sometimes super-sweet drinks have a tendency to taste heavy in the heat. Subtle drinks like this one made with cucumber, vodka and lime juice, will cool off your guests and allow them to walk away with a new idea for their own party.
  4. Avocado Margarita: It may sound strange, much like the above drink, but avocado margaritas are a must-try. Cool and smooth they go down easy and leave you feeling less full than regular margaritas. It’s a nice consideration for guests trying not to carbo load and another unique item that will make your reception stand out.
  5. Electric Lemonade: This is a festive-looking drink that is a terrific alternative to lemonade. Made with lemons, Sprite, and blue Curacao, your guests will be feeling the cool breezes in no time. For a non-alcoholic option, serve regular lemonade with a citrus garnish.
  6. Slush Punch: Nothing tastes better than a slightly-frozen slush punch when it’s hot outside. Consider this yummy recipe made with strawberry and lemonade flavors. Take a party-pleasing approach — make two batches and spike one with vodka.
  7. Aguas Frescas: Aguas Frescas is a Mexican drink made from fruit, sugar and water. Traditionally non-alcoholic, these juices are light, refreshing, and can be made in a variety of flavors. Plus, they’re typically contained in large, clear jars – a colorful and interesting design element for your wedding! Serve the juice in frozen mugs or glasses to increase its coldness.
  8. Champagne Cocktails: Champagne is a wedding staple, for sure. But why not have fun with it? Add some peach puree and make some Bellinis, add some chilled orange juice for a mimosa, or throw some champagne together with vodka and pineapple juice for a delicious Flirtini!
  9. Frozen Mojito: Though traditionally served over ice, mojitos are refreshing, minty drinks that can be served frozen as well. Combine lime sherbet with rum, mint leaves, and ice and press blend.
  10. Hibiscus Iced Tea: Iced tea is a staple summer drink, but try serving your guests a different version of the old-faithful. Hibiscus tea is made from dried flower petals and tastes cool, clean and refreshing. There’s also no caffeine in hibiscus tea, so it’s even more hydrating. Garnish the drink with colorful flowers.

Food

Everyone loves a wedding for the romance and the free food! Your menu, whether you’re going sit-down or buffet style, is one of your most important considerations when planning your wedding. What you serve will say a lot about your tastes, but also consider the tastes of your guests. Summer weddings are all about light fare. Here are some tasty options for your menu.

  1. Spinach and Strawberry salad: Adding fruit to traditional salads is a great idea for a summer meal. Strawberries are one such fruit that go very well with leaves, nuts, and seasonal cheeses. Check out a variety of recipes for the one that sounds most delicious to you.
  2. Cold Tortellini Salad: Cold pasta salads are also wildly popular when it’s warm out – just think about every barbeque you’ve attended! For your wedding, you can make this offering a little classier by using cheese-filled tortellinis and elegant looking vegetables like thinly sliced zucchini, green beans, and yellow peppers.
  3. Gazpacho: Gazpacho, a traditional Spanish soup that is served chilled, is an excellent idea for a summer wedding. It’s light, cold, and packed with nutrients from the tomatoes, onions, and veggies used. A wonderful option for an appetizer or first course.
  4. Tomato and Mozzarella: Tomatoes, basil and mozzarella go together fabulously. You can serve the combination on its own as a salad, drizzled with some balsamic vinaigrette or throw the ingredients together on a baguette for a tasty, light finger food.
  5. Salmon with Sweet Corn and Avocado: It’s a smart idea to serve a couple of choices for a main course, one type of meat and one type of fish. Grilled salmon accompanied by a sweet corn, tomato and avocado relish is a great fish option for summer months – filling and light all at once.
  6. Crab Cakes and Aioli: Crab cakes are a favorite served either as an appetizer or a main course. A standard crowd-pleaser, consult with your caterer on different ways to serve the dish – with a garlic aioli or other kind of complimentary dipping sauce.
  7. Spinach and Feta Phyllos: Another yummy and light finger food is a phyllo dough purse stuffed with spinach, feta cheese, and onion. A delicious appetizer or side that can be eaten easily.
  8. Roasted Dijon Chicken: Chicken is another great light summer meat. Spice yours up by roasting it in lemon and Dijon flavors. Add some garlic and paprika to give it a little pizzazz, or talk with your chef about their own chicken recipes.
  9. Steak: The key to serving steak in the summer is to do it in manageable portions. Go with a skirt steak and offer a horseradish garnish on the side. Light and flavorful, your guests will love the minimalist approach.
  10. Lobster: If you’ve got the dough, lobster is a luxury that should definitely be reserved for the special occasion of a wedding. Look into a crab-stuffed lobster recipe or serve it with a pea sauce and vegetable risotto.

Cakes

Like the food you serve for dinner, you also need to think about what kind of cake you want. Don’t go overboard with icings or heavy creams in the summer and probably steer clear of heavy chocolate cakes. Check out this list for some ideas on summery cake tastes and styles.

  1. Fresh Orange Wedding Cake: A simple, light cake graced with fruity flavors. Though this cake does use buttercream frosting, the apricot mousse filling will undercut its heaviness.
  2. Three Tiered Calla Lily: This three-tiered white cake with calla lily and lemon accents is a perfect summer look. Ask your baker to go for a simple white cake underneath with a light filling.
  3. Berry Cake: Garnish your cake with a lightly colored frosting and an overflowing of seasonal summer berries. The berries are both decorative and healthy and will give your cake a light tartness it needs in the summer months.
  4. Cupcake Wedding Cake: Build your cake out of lots of mini-cupcakes! Cupcake wedding cakes are cute and stylish and very easy on your guests. The best part is that your cake is already divided up into small, manageable portions. Consider making an assortment of different cupcake flavors to suit everyone’s tastebuds.
  5. Mini Cakes: Another alternative similar to the cupcake cake is the mini-cake – small, pre-made cakes for each individual guest. This example shows the mini cakes made to look like presents – very fun and festive!
  6. Striped Cake: This funky cake is colorful and bold and is a great cake for a summer wedding. The striping done with the frosting is very unique and you can pick whatever colors you wish to match your theme. A bright idea for a bright season, this cake is also perfect for the more casual bride.
  7. Apricot Cake: Summer is all about light fruits, and it’s a thought you should try to incorporate into whatever kind of cake you pick. Apricot is a quintessential summer fruit with a strong flavor and a festive color.
  8. Cherry Blossom Cake: Cherries are another great summery fruit. Think about a tiered cake with sugar covered cherries resting on each layer or check out this floral cake decorated to resemble a cherry blossom tree. Truly beautiful and great for summer or spring.
  9. Polka Dot Cake: A cute, stylish cake perfect for hipper brides. The polka dot icing is playful and fitting with the season, as are the colors used in this particular example. The upward swooping of the dots conjures images of champagne as well!
  10. Orchid Cake: This simple white cake is adorned with light blue orchids, a rare and special flower. A very light, feminine, and classy cake design.

Your Four-Legged Ring Bearer by Gretchen of mywedding.com

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Forget about having your sister’s temper-tantrum-throwing five year old son as the ring bearer. You’ve got your loyal, dedicated doggie to do the job. You know, that obedient, furry pal who cuddles at your feet every night in bed? Yes! Have your pet walk down the aisle on your big day! The trend is vastly growing and therefore, many attire options, as well as training classes are available for you and your pup to get ready for the big day.

There are just a few things to think over before Rover’s name is printed in the program. How is his temperament? Is he relaxed and cool, or hyper and jumpy? Is he friendly or territorial? Does he leap up on people, whether it’s for excitement or to threaten? These things are very important to consider in making your decision.

Here are a few guidelines to follow if you do decide to have your pup be a part of your special day:

  • Suit up your furry friend with formal wear. Dog Tuxedo’s are so cute are plentiful today. You can also get personalized dog tees for you little doggy. And if Rover is getting walked down the aisle, there are tons of fancy leashes and collars to choose from.

  • Have your pup washed and thoroughly cleaned right before the ceremony to keep people with allergies from having a bad reaction to his dander.  

  • Make sure your dog has relieved himself before the ceremony! It would be horrible for him to use a pew as his fire hydrant.

  • Bring Rover to the ceremony site a few times before the actual big day so he can familiarize himself with the site. Dogs get stage fright too!! 

  • Assign one of your dog-lover friends to keep Rover friendly and polite through the night. This person should make sure Rover doesn’t leave “surprises” under the reception tables!  

  • Be considerate of guests who may be fearful of dogs – as cute as yours is.

There you have it. Your favorite four-legged friend can make a great addition to your special day if you take a few precautions. Get some professional training if you wish, but if you can cater to these suggestions you should be fine without it. And if your sister can’t get over the fact that you won’t have little Timmy as the ring bearer, well, maybe suggest professional training for Timmy. Ouch! Source

 

Top 15 Wedding Dresses to Wear this Spring

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Spring brings with it glorious weather, sunshine, flowers, and an air of renewal. And if you’re a spring bride, you should carry these themes through in the dress you choose. Several trends that are hot for spring wedding dresses this year, include light cotton, organza, and chiffon materials, eyelet patterns, floral accents and lace. Being a spring bride, you also get a little freedom to play with length. Spring is a playful time, a time for us all to celebrate our release from winter hibernation and go forth into the great outdoors. Go short or mid-length if you dare, pick a babydoll style or go long with a natural and casual material. Here are some of the top picks for spring wedding dresses this season.

 

  1. Floral and Strapless: While the material on this dress is a little more formal, the light, pastel floral accents and sparkly beaded detail on the skirt make this dress a perfect pick for spring, allowing a bride to play on the theme of the season without losing the formality and princess-like quality many brides seek in a dress. Outside of wedding fashion, colors and bold prints are hot this spring on the runways and in the department stores. While this dress doesn’t quite fit that mold, it does add a splash of color and some bold accents. The back of the dress, with its light, wavy fabric accents, pastel bow, and ruffled skirt gather even further enforce this dress’s qualifications for a spring bride. This dress is unique and any lady who chooses to wear it on her big day will undoubtedly be the center of attention. The floral dress really makes you look like the pedals of a flower and is definitely an eye catcher. With this dress you can be both elegant
    and playful at the same time and it will
    certainly be one that people will talk about.
  2. Maggie London Eyelet Halter: Eyelet fabric is all the rage for the casual girl this spring, and if you’re looking for a casual, light wedding dress, look no further than this number from Maggie London. The halter cut and empire waist makes it flattering for almost all body types, and the not-quite-floor length allows a long, leg-concealing dress to appear fun and flirty. The fabric is extremely breathable and the style embodies the spirit of a social butterfly – this dress is great for any girl, whether you’re preppy, sporty, fashion-forward, extremely simple, or artsy. Perfect also for those of you planning an outdoor wedding.
  3. Platinum for Priscilla: If you’re going to go short, by all means check out this amazing new dress from the Platinum for Priscilla Spring 2008 collection. It’s cute, flirty and sophisticated all at the same time, and it completely evokes the character of Carrie Bradshaw from “Sex and the City.” The organza dress features well-executed bands that add texture and depth to the dress; the satin belt accents the waist nicely and adds a floral element that screams, “Spring!” The bouncy skirt is spunky and chic. This dress is the perfect short, spring dress that could certainly accommodate many different personality types. Alright alright so platinum isn’t exactly the color you were thinking of for your wedding. This dress might not come in the wedding white that you would see normally on a bride on her big day. But this isn’t just any normal day. This is your day and with the Platinum for Priscilla dress you will definately be the the center of attention and it will be a dress that goes remembered for a long time. Do you like to take a step on the wild side and have some fun? If you do then try this dress on for size it will not disappoint.
  4. Henry Roth Chiffon Halter: The light, flowing chiffon material used for this dress is easy, understated, yet so very elegant. The dress hangs simply, gathering in a pool of airy ripples at the bottom. The Swarovski crystals used to accent below the bust bring a bright and fun element to an otherwise simple, yet beautiful dress. This style is perfect for spring because of its light, flowing nature. There are almost no complications to its design, meaning architects all over the world will appreciate its form, function and innate beauty. A bride in this dress would be comfortable walking down a church aisle or skipping across a field of flowers to reach her intended. Definitely a must-see for a no-nonsense bride.
  5. Lela Rose Two Tiered: A fun and stylish dress, this one really has it all for spring. First off, the two-tiered design lends an air of playfulness and is a nice diversion from the traditional ball gown or A-line cut. Second, the chiffon material used drapes very nicely and it’s frothy and spring-like in its weight and measure. Third, the floral accent used on the bodice is nicely done. It’s big, bold and simple, and it’s a terrific alternative to minute, beaded floral accents. And who can really argue with the sheer beauty of the delicate, wide straps and detailed pleating on the bodice? This dress is a trend setter for the season and really one of a kind.
  6. Vera Wang Swagged Ball Gown: The runways this spring all have one thing in common – color and bold patterns. So, if you’re the adventurous type, consider ditching the white and going for something a little stronger. Just take this gorgeous, draped, iridescent golden ball gown from wedding-dress master Vera Wang. It’s a full and classic shape with a shimmering fabric that sparkles and commands attention. The pinkish hue of the material also makes it a perfect tone for spring. But the crowning jewel of this gown is the attention-commanding, deep burgundy rose accent that curves around the waist, making a big splash. This gown is sophisticated and avant-garde and is a great option for the bride who turns her nose at all things pastel and pink.
  7. Mori Lee Chantilly Lace: Stylish and dainty, this strapless, floor-length gown by designer Mori Lee is a great option for this year’s spring bride for many reasons. First of all, the A-line cut is simple and flattering to most body types. Second, the intricate lace overlay gives the dress a light, airy feeling, while maintaining a strong sense of femininity. Lace is definitely in this season, as are empire waists. And the subtle crystal Swarovski beads you’ll find on this wide empire waist band add a sense of elegance, formality and sheen. For brides so inclined, this dress comes with the option of ordering an accompanying shawl, which is available in three lengths. And don’t neglect the gentle scalloping that ruffles out around the train. And beautiful detail for the bride that appreciates beauty!
  8. Jim Hjelm Short & Satin: Another terrific option for brides interested in short dresses, this sassy number from Jim Hjlem’s Spring 2008 collection has many of the simplest elements that are defining spring style. First of all, the shimmering satin fabric is fresh and comfortable and the above-knee length is fun and flirty. The feature that really makes this dress one with the times is the careful and waist-enhancing diagonal pleating that starts midway down the bodice, narrows to a point underneath the crystal-beaded sash and then spreads back out through the voluminous and lively skirt. The blush tint of the satin further qualifies this dress for a spring wedding by lending a warmness and lightheartedness to the look. Again, this is another dress that is a great option for both the cosmopolitan and the spunky bride.
  9. Judd Wadell Cap Sleeve: Most spring dresses this season are strapless or feature dainty, lacey straps. That’s why this dress is a great addition to what’s available in the spring collections. The cap sleeves are very flattering to the arms and add a level of class and sophistication lacking in some of the shorter skirt or strappy varietals. This style will suit brides looking for something more classic, yet still modern. Made of Peau de Soie, a drapeable, matte fabric that has satin woven into the fibers, the dress’s medium weight and dull finish makes it flattering to most figures since it hides imperfections instead of highlighting them like some shinier materials. The empire waist is doubly flattering to most body types. A simple dress without being too plain, the bodice features a shimmering satin that extends just below the bust and is intricately woven. The floor-length dress also has a chapel-length train. A gorgeous dress for the romantic bride.
  10. Monique Lhuillier Floral Strapless: Floral accents are in, in, in this season and no one does them better than Monique Lhuillier, who is known for her elegant and romantic dress designs. This beige dress is one of the best pieces out of Lhuillier’s 2008 collection, which was dubbed “The Enchanted Forest” in her runway show. Lhuillier steered clear of polished fabrics this season and is using lots of the other hot trends, like chiffon, organza and tulle. This loud and experimental dress is definitely made for the adventurous bride. But for those of you wanting to take an artsy risk, you’ll find no better tailor than Lhuillier. The four-tiered skirt is encrusted with beautiful light blue floral accents, mimicking leaves falling to the earth and conjuring images of, literally, an enchanted forest. The beige color is soft and would especially favor brides with warmer skin tones, and the top of the dress is constructed beautifully, with the organza material and blue floral accents tying up gently across a shoulder. If this dress isn’t for you, check out some of Lhuillier’s other pieces from her collection – one is sure to suit your style.
  11. Kirstie Kelly Couture: If you want to keep some semblance of a traditional wedding gown yet still incorporate some in-style elements, this gown from Kirstie Kelly Couture might just be the one for you. It shows its spring 2008 status through the lace V-neckline and the pinkish hue of the eggshell-finish fabric. The cream satin sash is also a telltale sign of its vintage – so many designers are incorporating this look into a variety of gown styles. But the ball gown classification will allow the fairy tale bride to stay in sync with the dreams of her girlhood while also wow her guests with the sleek style of modern times and the girly accents that are so in style this spring season. This dress is definately a very beautifully elegant dress. It is cute and fun and really anything that you need it to be. This dress will not disappoint the bride that chooses it.
  12. Christos Lace: Bring on more lace! Lace is so very beautiful and so very in this spring season. And this wonderful Alencon lace covered gown from Christos uses the material just right. The tiered organza gown is covered in a beautiful light lace that extends from just below the bodice to the floor. The subtle way it’s incorporated into the gown set this lace number apart from other dresses that are constructed to make it the obvious focal point rather than a demure and discreet detail. A truly romantic dress that would flatter many body types.
  13. Reem Acra Sheath: Fans of the Star Wars remake movies will love this gauzy new dress from Reem Acra that incorporates all the elements of hot spring style into a unique, avant-garde look that calls forth the image of a much-chicer Queen Amidala. Over the top of a simple, strapless, floor-length sheath drapes a gauzy, see-through material that wraps all the way around the bride. Worked into the shoulder and left forearm are floral accents that add softness and beauty to the look. And gauzy banding wrapped around the arms further adds texture and style. This dress is perfect for the artsy and adventurous bride – it’s modern while still maintaining a graceful quality.
  14. Romona Keveza: Another short and spunky number, this great dress by Romona Keveza is really a quintessential look for the spring bride looking for a fun and romantic mini-dress. Made from a moveable light-pink fabric, the strapless dress accents the chest and shoulder areas nicely, coming up around the bust in a heart-shape. The bubble hem moves well with the bride, and the folds and draping in the bodice are expertly done. Another major spring element is the large rose accent to the left of the midriff, from which a wide bow hangs. Another fun and flirty dress for a fun and flirty season, complete with breathable fabrics, pastel hues and floral elements.
  15. Reem Acra Fitted: Enough with all this bounce and sway, you say? If you’re looking for something a little more form-fitting, check out this gorgeous floor-length dress from Reem Acra. The body of the gown hangs fairly tight to the frame, and the subtle tiers give a soft texture. The silk satin-faced chiffon is ideal for a spring bride and the ivory color – just slightly off white – is very flattering to most skin tones. But let’s not forget the other spring-perfect details expertly worked into this gown. The V-neck bodice features some very tastefully-done bead work and the narrow satin sash at the waist gives the dress much class. The back of the dress flows to the ground in ripples of satin that move beautifully. You really can’t go wrong in any way by choosing this dress.

15 Tips to Supercharge Your Spring Cleaning

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With flowers blooming, the sun shining, and the birds chirping, there’s no better time to take stock and get control of your life than the spring. Spring cleaning symbolizes a time of renewal and new beginnings – out with the old, in with the new file cabinets and recipe card holders. Here are 15 tips that will help you eliminate clutter and live a simpler, cleaner life!

  1. Make a Mess: Ever heard the saying, “Before things get better, they get worse”? Never did they ring more true than to a person trying to organize their life. In order to clean things up, you’re going to have to make a big, stinking mess. Go ahead – rip open your closet doors, pull everything off the shelves and dump it into a pile. Then start sorting. Whether you are cleaning a closet, a cabinet, or an entire room, centralizing the clutter is an effective way to both empty the space so you can visualize how you want to put things back into it and weed through the chaff. Start thinking about some things you might need to get things ship shape, such as plastic bins, hangers, or shelves.
  2. Take Inventory: Commercial and retail organizations often take inventory of their stock at least once a year so they can maintain accurate financial records. The same method can be helpful in organizing your house. So you found out you have 4 pairs of black capri pants? Well, maybe it’s time for one or two to go. Often when we let our living spaces get out of control, we forget we have things that we already own. Are you the kind of person that runs to the store for a replacement every time you can’t find something? Well, then chances are you have a tremendous amount of clutter in your house. Taking inventory will also allow you to eliminate the stress of throwing things out or giving them away, because you will know what you have and what you need.
  3. Pull Out the Weeds: After you have made a mess of your belongings and taken inventory of your stock, it’s time to figure out what goes and what stays. Again, repeat items are a shoe-in for elimination, as are belongings that are worn out, cheaply made, or rendered useless. A sock drawer is a great example of the latter category. Go through and pick out all of the socks who have lost their mates. Who needs them?! Also, throw out all the old T-shirt remnants you’ve been using as dust clothes. Chances are you will have new pieces of cloth to cut up when you are done weeding. Still hanging on to that blazer from high school? Guess what? It’s totally out of style. Get rid of it! Throwing things out can be a difficult and emotional process for many people who form unnecessary attachments to their stuff. Be tough. You’ll thank yourself for it later.
  4. Contain to Maintain: People typically get into a state of disorganization because they start out that way. Once you have whittled down you belongings to represent only your favorites, don’t just throw everything back in your closet or living room in the same miserable piles. Organize your stuff with the help of some attractive containers or shelves. It’s a simple concept that will help you maintain your sanity throughout the rest of the year. Consider the following kinds of containers: file cabinets, plastic tubs, and free-standing drawers. For example, one thing that will help free your house of clutter is putting away items you hardly use. Measure the distance from the bottom of your bed to the floor and invest in some long, narrow storage containers that will fit underneath perfectly. In your living room, hide the fact that it’s storage by buying some free standing drawers.
  5. Categorize: Now that you have everything in containers, let’s get out the label maker! Maybe you won’t need one, but if you organize your belongings into sensible categories you will find life to be much easier. Gone are the days of the “junk drawer”, these are the days of the “baking supplies drawer”, the “record cabinet”, and the “tax document file”. According to blogger David Allen, “naming things give us power over them.” Categorizing your belongings will ultimately bring you freedom.
  6. Green Dimes: Another reason that homes get too cluttered is that we are constantly getting useless things in the mail that we for some reason or another feel we must hang on to. Examples of this might be that package of coupons you get every month that you swear you’ll use but don’t, or those catalogs that you convince yourself you’re going to buy something from but never even get around to reading. Eliminate junk mail from your life and save some trees by signing up for Green Dimes, a service that removes your name and address from mass mailing lists and eliminates catalogs and magazines you don’t want. This is a great way to kill two birds with one stone – reduce clutter and your carbon footprint with a few simple clicks of your mouse.
  7. Green Clean: Clearly, while embarking on a spring cleaning mission, you are going to need some cleaning products to disinfect and sterilize your home. Continue your work of reducing your impact on the earth by investing in some environmentally friendly cleaning products, such as those from companies like Simple Green, Seventh Generation and Mrs. Meyers. These products are non-toxic, biodegradable, and free of dyes and fragrances. Replacing just a few of your regular cleaning products with these safe products would have a huge impact on the earth. According to Seventh Generation, if everyone replaced a 100 oz. bottle of petroleum-based laundry detergent with a bottle of vegetable-oil based detergent, we’d save enough energy to heat and cool 27,000 homes a year.
  8. Clean What Hangs: So, you know those things that hang on your windows? Those blinds, drapes and valances that have been collecting odors and dust for the better part of the year? Well, they need to be cleaned, too. So do those ceiling fans that you’ve probably never touched with a dust cloth and those once-sleek lamp shades that look a little fuzzy. Often in routine house cleanings, most of us neglect to clean things that aren’t as obviously dirty as our spaghetti-sauce-stained kitchen counters. Take stock of the things in your home that have been ignored and attack. Begin by taking a hand-held duster to your blinds or drapes and see how much grime you can get off. If it’s a fair amount, you can probably complete the job by hand, using a fabric cleaner and cloth or all-purpose cleaner (for blinds). If you need something more heavy-duty, ask at your hardware store for a small, mini-blind attachment for your vacuum and suck the dirt off!
  9. Sit on Something Clean: Just like your drapes, it’s probably true that you haven’t given your sofa and chair covers a thorough cleaning in some time either. Spotting spills with fabric cleaners and Febreezing will only take you so far. During your spring cleaning, consider stripping off your couch and chair covers and taking them to see a professional. If that proves too expensive, as upholstery cleaning often can, do it yourself! By the way, this applies to rugs and carpets too. Look into local steam cleaners or businesses who rent the equipment out. If you want to do it yourself, you’ll need a vacuum, a rug shampooer and possibly a steam cleaner. Start by vacuuming off all the loose dirt from the fabric, under the cushions, the arm rests and the back of the couch. Then, with the appropriate shampoo, use the rug shampooer to clean the entire couch. Then let it dry. Depending on the type of fabric you have on your sofa, you may need a steam cleaner. Check with the manufacturer before moving forward.
  10. Prioritize: An important part of spring cleaning is packing away the stuff you’re not going to need for awhile. This means Christmas decorations, winter sweaters, and ice skates. Before you start restocking your rooms, figure out what sorts of things you want handy and what sorts of things are OK left unseen for awhile. Putting your seasonal belongings out of sight is a good tactic to simplify your home and control clutter. Previously, we talked about storage containers. These are essential items in helping you prioritize, as they will allow you to store long-term the items, like your Christmas tree, that you rarely use. Also, think about the types of places within your home that you would like to reserve for this kind of storage, like your attic or a faraway corner in your basement. Wherever you end up remember, out of your sight, out of your way!
  11. Dump Some Weight: One thing most people tend to hold on to for too long is their book collection. Let’s face it, if you haven’t read Catcher in the Rye since high school, it’s probably not going to happen again. Sort through your bookcases and pick out the volumes you haven’t lifted in years. You have several options with disposing of them, none of which should be the trash! Lots of organizations accept book donations, whether it’s for soldiers, inmates, or people in impoverished countries. Spread the gift of knowledge and simplify your life at the same time!
  12. Excavate the Fridge and Pantry: Your refrigerator and pantry are probably storing some things they shouldn’t be. While this is something that should most certainly be done more than once a year, cleaning out your fridge and pantry should definitely be part of your spring cleaning regiment. Check the dates on the stuff in your pantry that you once thought were imperishable. You may be surprised. How long can a box of Hamburger Helper really last after all? The fridge may be a little more self-explanatory. If it’s moldy, expired or just plain been around awhile, ditch it. Even for so-called non-perishable items you’ve got to have a limit. If you’ve been holding onto that box of pasta for two years, chances are it’s not going to get eaten, nor should it. Be liberal and throw out the sketchy stuff.
  13. Clean Your Grout: Know that stuff in between your tiling that looks rough and dingy? It’s called grout and it’s what is holding your beautiful tiles to the floor or the wall. For the most part, it’s supposed to be white. Typically, worn-in grout falls somewhere on the beige to dark gray scale. This is a special cleaning job into itself and, while tedious, is necessary to avoid getting gross build-up – the result of ignoring the problem year after year after year. And while you’re in the bathroom, check out your tub. It may be time to recaulk the sealant around the tub. Keeping up with this task reduces the risk that water will get behind your tiles and cause them to fall off.
  14. Remember the Garage!: So, you have your house pretty well situated, but what about that mess in the garage? Think how nice it would be to actually park your car in the space that was devised for that purpose. This is a task that may require some help. Go at it by dividing things up into what you want to keep and what you want to throw out. For the keepers, organize them into categories. Check out what can be hung on walls and hammer in some nails. The more stuff you can get off the ground, the better. Invest in a tool bench and some sturdy containers and your vehicle will be off the street in no time. While you’re at it, take the time to clean up those ugly oil spills or paint splatters from the floor. Depending on how large your garage is, you may consider building some separating walls and using a portion for long-term storage if that kind of space is limited within your home.
  15. Yard Sale or Donate: So, you’ve successfully cleaned and organized your home. What to do with all the stuff you’ve purged from your now-sparkling abode? Well, if you’re in the market for some extra income, and you have a good temperament and a few free weekends, then hold a yard sale and see how much your vintage items will fetch on the free market. This will be something of a chore that you may not want to undertake so soon after overhauling your house, as it will involve inventory and pricing. If so, then find a good charity to donate your stuff. Either way it’s a win-win. Donating your items to a nonprofit is a good financial opportunity as well, since all donations are tax write offs. Just make sure you research the charity so you know your stuff is going to a good place. And ask for receipts! You can’t claim it on your tax return without the proper documentation.